4 years ago throwback picture but it's a fave of mine. He's seh-heh-exy in it and when I read the article, this ChateauRob was what first popped in my mind even though there are a few ChateauRobs.
Rob's back in Los Angeles and it looks like he might have been spotted hanging with friends at Chateau Marmont the other night. From People.com:
With his Twilight duties behind him, Robert Pattinson enjoyed a night out with a male pal on Tuesday. The two met up at West Hollywood's Chateau Marmont, where Pattinson grabbed a table and sipped on a Stella. Not long after their arrival, though, the men were joined by a group of six friends – including singer M.I.A., who capped off her signature eclectic look with an oversized hat. Pattinson, in a jacket (but not his usual baseball cap), "looked happy and relaxed," a source tells PEOPLE. Though he frequently left his pals for breaks on the smoking patio, "he only paid attention to his guy friends, laughing and letting loose a little bit," the source continues. After about an hour, the whole party said goodbye and left the venue.Thanks Cyn for the tip!
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«Oldest ‹Older 601 – 728 of 728 Newer› Newest»thnx lol !
No offense that was why I asked - I didn't want to assume. Thanks for the replies.
Well, it's your right to disagree. I'm OK with that. But I have a different opinion. I find the "squelch-negativity" thing to be unnecessary and divisive. I like that people with differing opinions feel comfortable enough to share them on Robsessed. It feels like a family. I agree with sonja that they just need to be polite about it. And I've always liked your posts, so I hope this difference of opinion doesn't get in the way of our shared passion for all things Rob.
Probably will be back to see BD2 - looks like it is still showing near me !!!
Don't I know it! Even bad pictures of him look better than the rest of us.
It'll probably be out through Christmas. It is doing really well in the box office. I've seen it twice. I should probably go see it again - I haven't memorized it yet like I have every other Rob movie. ;)
You do that Van- I am lucky to have a off day today to be able to go!!!
Sent from my iPhone
I'm not blaming the mods. It's just frustrating. I've been coming to this site for three years, and I don't comment often. But I often read, and yes, I agree that the folks who show up to just flame Kristen are ridiculous, but so are the regulars who try to tell people what they can talk about and that they aren't real fans if they don't like Kristen, too. And then when I raise the issue, I have one of the regulars telling me to go away!
Love your comment and I agree with you, however, with Rob comes Kristen and what I can't get through my thick skull is if we are all here for Rob and are robsessed and follow and breath his every move, why, if he can forgive her, why can't the small and narrow-minded haters. I just don't get that. Why can't you KS haters, just accept the fact that he is with her... he will always be with her... and just move the fu*k on already? Geez. Time to disappear again. Can't stand to read this shit. (Shout out to Jennifer... love you girl)
if you're talking about me, you can say my name.
and I don't tell people what they can or cannot talk about, I simply try to get them to show a SHRED of respect. You must admit that it's been lacking lately. And when I told you to go away...I meant why not? everyone else is leaving? You think I haven't been told to leave? I am simply to damn stubborn to go.
Believe me, I understand that many out there still do not care for Kristen. I am definitely among the minority and I can live with that. I also understand that the blog would be a better place if she were not mentioned but there are those who come here ONLY to bring her up so as to incite the riot and it works every time.
damn I miss you A! so much!
Oeps, that got lost in translation for me, sorry XD
Me too! We did have some fun here didn't we?
You're welcome.
SO much fun!! The good ol days huh :/
Remember when we would get a stream of fun going, we had the entire site join us in the banter. I met so many great women here that way. That's how I met you actually. Right? You are a tough competitor in the banter department girl.
i DO! and yeah, we met right here at the blog. The discussions we had were slightly perverted yet always enjoyable! lol
and trust me A, you are pretty hard to beat when it comes to quirky comebacks ;D
<3 U BIG
Van in all fairness to Jenn, you need to own up to the game you played when you came on like an alias (moonbeam). Intentional or not your remarks were agitating to say the least and considering what was going down at the time it seemed deliberate on your part. It's easy to see you may have been playing with us but we were in the thick of it and wasn't the best time to play a trick, if that's what it was. Either way Jenn deserves for you to be straight with her about it. No bs. Best to make amends. Peace.
Jenn have you heard from Van/Moonbeam today? I left her post just now she needs to come clean about that ?? yesterday..whatever it was.
I like to stand in the middle of this. Rob choose her to be the love of his life. Why hate the person he loves, you only hurting him. He made the decison, it made him feel good with her. There are things about Kristen that we don't see, that only Rob see it that he needed it in a partner. She made a mistake, and learn from it, she is not the perfect one, nobody is like any human being. We are only an spectator what's going on, our opinion really don't count. Support Rob of all his doing, either career or personal choices . . .
What a man, what a man, what a mighty fine man !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! .......LOVE that picture !!!!!!
I really like your humor XD (It was a joke right, if not, I just insulted you and I'm very sorry, you did make me laugh though)
nope. don't expect to either. it was bad. yesterday's gone. let's just try to put it behind us and look forward to the good stuff.
thank you sonja. for sticking it out. stubborness must be a southern trait. lol ;D
you're a peach dear :)
So are you. This thread didn't stand a chance. Well onto better ones..
This whole conversation was very comforting to read, it shows there are a lot of nice, respectfull and smart ladies on this blog and that I'm still allowed to have my own opinion about KS. (as long as I am respectfull about it)
Uno that damm cat made a disgusting remark to bwen and deserved to be flagged for it but I didn't think to. Wish I had.
You got it babe. Love and respect Rob, that's the key.
I flagged it...or at least I think I did. with this new format, I can never be sure. there are old comments from yesterday that are still popping up recently as new. i hate this new format D:<
I will be missing both you and Nikola6 very much. I have been around but posting not so much. Am afraid sometimes and then I don't know how to put my thoughts into words very well. Guess that comes with age (70 of them to be exact). But both you and Nikola6 did it so well. Would especially like to hear you both in regards to upcoming movies for Rob, and such topics. Love you both and will keep watching from afar. Especially for both of you just in case you do have something relevant and good to say. yours Judy
Yea it's a mess and it keeps things going that are already done with..like disqus is a trouble maker!?
Indeed
Most of us have run for the hills, Jen. The nature of the comments has changed so much that we just can't be here any more. Some girls have gone completely, others lurk but don't comment, some like me just comment occasionally when there's a fun thread or a caption competition. Times change I suppose, I'm an old fogey, I miss the old days when this was our happy place.
Great!
I do too Snuggler. I do too.
Which comment?
Anyone can do it. I save all the pics I like throughout the year and make it on Snapfish. Small and discreet enough for my eyes only!!
it was awful. I hope it got removed. It was like Val hate bwen. Must go way back. But bwen stayed cool. Very admirable.
You have a great attitude.
You totally suck!
Unfortunately I just found it. I would flag it a 100 times if I could. She's disgusting!
deleted?? sorry, did i say something wrong? It´s just my opinion, and i think i was respectful.
Erm.......Did I step out and step back into some kind of freaky parallel universe or something???? Okay this place is about Rob but it's also so much more than that, at least it is to me. I thought we had been here and done this. Don't you or the others dare disappear YOU are part of the blog. READ THE COMMENTS all of you!! So many people feel that what you have to say is important and pleasantly put and FUN!! This about talking about Rob, his plans, his future, his interests, anybody that doesn't share need not visit.
Please XX
Oh you do take getting used to ;-) YA'LL such odd people ;p
You DO know I'm joking don't you Sonja LOL
please dont apologise i only said to explain what i meant! could have easily been taken the way you did :)
M.I.A. get in line behind all of us!
Don't be sorry Van, you're not the first person (myself included) whose words have been misinterpreted. Thanks for taking the time to clarify and I do understand now what you were saying. People get touchy only because of the few who come here for one reason only, and it's not to sing Rob's praises, but to let us all know what they think of his choice of girlfriend and often just stir the pot. It got worse after the cheating scandal and they feel that gives them some ammunition despite the fact that R/K apparently have survived the storm and are together. Their screen names are becoming familiar. Hopefully, this will die down with time. Hugs!
Tink, you could show this pic every day. I know I wouldn't mind! LOL
Hey there Maria... Stop! Save yourself from the nightmare ahead!..wait..5 hrs ago? ..uh-oh...too late. ..Yea that was me sounding like a broken record saying the same thing over and over and over...what can I say? I was sleep deprived and damm determined to get my point across..wonder if somebody didn't tell me to stfu...or maybe they did. I'll see you elsewhere I hope. If this thread isn't dead yet it should be.
I just saw this and I am truly humbled to be on your list. I'm speechless. The problem is when one starts making a list, someone always gets left off and there are many more who have graced this blog with their wit and wisdom and it is a shame when they suddenly disappear. Sadly, that list seems to be growing. I have a long list of names in a notebook when I was trying to keep track of who was who, and barely any of them still comment here anymore. Perhaps they are lurking and will come back, I hope. Thank you.
No, you did nothing wrong. I just posted a comment that didn't belong there, lol.
You are a really fun poster and I've missed seeing you around here. Won't you come back?
The two of you and Bwen, what a great combination!
Ahhh... the good ol' days.
good comment x
Thanks mizz. I just believe staying respectful whatever opinion you might express is the only way to maintain normal conversation here. And plus i believe things will change for the better. I am a hopeless optimist:) and sometimes confused for a fool because of it
Hi Sonja....don't panic ;-) I didn't go much further into the thread than here as I did receive that message from elsewhere!! I gather it got stupidly ridiculous. I hope you are ok and didn't get personally abused on here? If I see you pop up elsewhere I'll check in with you there ;-)
that's the price when you don't choose 1 side and understand everyone a bit. you lool like an idiot. Ever read The Idiot by Dostoyevsky? He was called that because he looked naive and like a fool because he felt for everyone and argued like that. Though he was worse than us. ;-) I'm an optimist too, we can reach hands.
This is for MIZZAR
Yes i have read that and both the book and the author are my favourites. But i would not compare us to Lev Myshkin, as it is widely believed that the prototype for that character is Jesus Christ:)
yes I have read. its my favourite and also the author is my favourite too. but let's not compare ourselves with Lev Myshkin because it ia widely believed the prototype of that character was Jesus Christ
hehe, not comparing, but it's interesting to know that it can happen. lol
Welcome to our happy place ;-)
the list is almost complete i think but i do have a problem - it is too long. and the song is not. lol
Oh my, I only did a video once for my little sun and then I chose a song and adjusted the amount of photos to that, but this is a dilemma, right? I mean we want all the Rob pics/vids we can get ;-)
So all you can do is search for a longer version of the song or another songsnippet in the beginning or at the end perhaps?? LOL... you will do amazing I'm quite sure of that, Mizz ;-)
right now i have two songs. but i better shut up now. if i finish the vid it should be a surprise.
DITTO!
you wrote my name wrong LOL
1. It's said again and again that "If you love Rob you have to love Kristen too because she is what makes him happy and who he wants". that means basically everyone who is not a fan of Kristen is not a fan of Rob. or a bad one. Sorry but It's definitely not about respect anymore in this fight. People loose focus in this self-made battle.
2. To the behaviour of a lot around here: If you copy the behaviour of a troll you are not better. You can't tell someone to show respect if youself look foolish. To say stfu to someone who has a negative opinion about Kristen is foolish.
sorry for replying again. i'm usually only lurking but sinse i started my arguement to you i would like to continue. you were wondering if people deliberately misunderstand you or if they just want to hate on Kristen and that's why they defend the people with negative opinions. i don't think that. i understand you mean good but your comment above is what other fans hurt and what makes them run. why they think they are not welcome. Lallie's correction is right and what should be said. Rob's happiness and his commmitment to her and their relationship matters to us and that's why we respect and support his life choices and argue for it. we don't need to love her. you said so in other comments, but now you contradict yourself here. how should fans take your comments what you really mean?...hope you don't mind me, you were seriously wondering and i wanted to help you see things maybe from a different perspective.
Didn't wanna revisit this thread or this issue as it's already been talked to death, but felt I should respond to you so here goes :
1. I never, repeat NEVER said you have to love Kris if you love Rob. But it's certainly OK if you do. And it does NOT make you a bad fan if you don't like her. But why would anyone wanna bash her if they love him knowing that could be hurtful to him? Simply put : Fans don't have to love her.. just don't bash her (for Rob's sake)
2. Negative opinions can be a problem if they go too far or to the point of bashing. Posters should feel free to state their opinions in a polite manner.
And the only one told to STFU was a troll who came here to start a war... mission accomplished.
This just me stating my opinions and how they line up with the rules of the blog.
Your suggestion is all well and good Monique, however, this is primarily a ROB site not a Robsten site. I don't hate Kristen but I have absolutely no interest in her whatsoever. I'm not really interested in what his family, or Sam Bradley is up to either. It gets extremely boring for those of us not interested in his personal life to have pages upon pages about Kristen, especially when the article is not about her. Like today's topic for instance. I don't like it when people spew hate about her as I consider it disrespectful, but then again I'm also not interested in the constant 'defence' of her either. I think it is unfair of you to say that 'those who like her can chat all they want' when those who don't should have to put up with it without saying anything. My suggestion is, if Kristen is a relevant part of the topic then obviously she should be included. If the topic does not include her then her fans should go to a Robsten site for a catch up. I am so tired of all the fighting here that I rarely comment any more, but I think the Robstens are as bad as the Nonstens. Please, can we just chat about Rob. Surely everyone would be happy about that as we are here for him. Whatever, or whoever he does in private should stay that way. It is more supportive of us fans to stop the speculation and bitching, and try to play nice. Robsessed shouldn't just be for the people interested in his private life, it should be a site for everyone.
Yes I get what you are saying and see that I should have said it differently, as Lallie stated, and that it could have been mis-undersood. I meant to say not that she has to matter to you but that his relationships should. Better? That's the politically correct version..(I hate PC)
If it's better you have to decide. I just showed you you did say what you claim never have said. so have others. i just felt bad for those who were wrongly accused of misunderstanding you and others or being secretly haters. and those who left because of comments like yours. you asked and wondered in comments above and i just tried to help you see that sometimes the fault lies also on "you" and not always only on others. if you are not intersted just ignore me.
If I understand you correctly, you are saying that people who don't like Kris have left because of something I said? Who? What has actually happened as a result of these discussions is that the ones who DO like her are leaving or just lurking (this has been the case) and the ones you are referring to have been coming on board and seem to feel quite welcome.
But let me tell you how I really feel....I agree that all who love ROB should feel welcome here so long as there is no bashing.
When trolls come they should be ignored so hopefully they go away or else get flagged.
I hate that the ones who like Kristen chose to leave. I hate that people choose to hang onto negative feelings about Kristen and think they have the right to bash her on a site dedicated to ROB despite the fact that he loves her. I was angry at her too for a while but realized finally that it is not my relationship it's theirs, Not mine to judge or be miserable over...It was theirs to work out anyway they saw fit and up to them to forgive and make amends and NOT up to me at all whatsoever never was because it's not mine never will be ...it's theirs and only theirs. I love him and as his fan I've always liked them as a couple but separate from him I'm not her fan individually. So I am totally in the middle of this. And if you are not a fan of her why not join me in the middle and enjoy them as a couple and be happy for ROB that he's happy instead of holding onto bad feelings toward her that are absolutely useless and keep you upset and from enjoying your experience as a fan?
Sonja, you and I both know that the ones who've chosen to leave did not do so because of anything you said. Or me. Or bwen, lallie, nuzz, mizzz, ana, none of them! The ones who've gone were run off by the new ones who revel in the hate they stir up. Bell has taken it upon herself to lay the guilt at your feet where it does NOT belong. I apologize for not being here for you. I've not been well. I'm here now tho. :)
Mmmm, not you specific. I just tried to explain. But okay, i don't want to upset you. It's between you and the others. I'm mostely a lurker. I agree with the rest. I do not have any bad feelings toward Kristen, never had.
Thanks so much Jenn. I'm sorry you've been ill. Headache? Your support means so much to me. God knows I feel like a broke record and this horse been beat to death already. But I think I have a new mission to stop the unnecessary hate towards her. What place does it have on this blog? None that's what. If I can help someone get past it then I've done good. Do I get a gold star?
No, that was not my intention. sorry if you feel like that, i did not want to upset. no one is guilty here, no one does it on purpose. misunderstandings, wrong words chosen, you hear (read) what you want to hear and believe...hope you feel better if you haven't been well, and don't stress because of me. Sonja was wondering and i thought it's okay to share my opinion. i apology.
five gold stars Sonja. because you are right. and you are trying to do what is right. i would love to have the others back as well.
yeah. headache.
With my greatest respect... I don't think it's anything like a "Robsten" site. I just think that we use to be able to discuss Ms. Stewart without so much fight, the older posters that use to be here were able to discuss and moved on without the constant fighting. I am just saying that it would be nice if there is a picture post with both of them. People can discuss it.. who wants to without everyone one fighting about it. It is a Robsessed and a dedicate site to Robert and I love it here. I just hate to see posters I enjoy reading their posts back and forth leave because of the fight. And it always seems to bring poster that doesn't post to bash and start the bickering.
Sorry so slow to reply, it's not showing your comments here until I refresh then scroll...slow ass laptop..very unresponsive..
Hope you feel better, Jenn and I appreciate the stars..lol
Do you think they will? Reading Ohbitemeplease post to you above I almost cried. It reveals how hurtful the hate has been...and how wrong.
that's why i subscribe via email. it updates much quicker.
at this point sonja, i don't think i can feel much worse...ha.
and nope. i do not think they will come back. Dean's Honey Bear, LovinRob, Amanda ... gone. Maybe Ohbiteme will come around some ... maybe even bwen ... hopefully we'll hear from Nik again soon. There has been a lot of hate here. Sad really when I think that the main reason i came here on the start was because of the LOVE we all shared.
Wow..you said it Jenn..it should be about the love...no hate.
Wish the doctor could help you get rid of those bad ones.
You rest and we'll chat later when my LT is better,..luv u
Oh Jenn, feel better soon, I suffered from headaches all through my adolescent years, took to the bed to get rid of them. I was lucky, thankfullyI never actually experienced the true migraines, but can imagine how debilitating they are. BIG HUGS and a cold clothe over your head, if that helps at all.
For what it's worth, I'm happy to give you a Gold Star! For (1) fighting the good fight for Rob, defending and acknowledging what comments HE would appreciate reading here, and (2) for just being the compassionate, wise, witty, articulate fan who make this Blog a good, happy place and a community of like-minded fans from around the globe who are all here, all for one and one for all, our darling boy!
''For what it's worth"...It's worth gold to me Lallie. I value your opinion and approval more than you could know. Thank you for the kind words. So glad that you and the others are still here and hoping those that have left will return before too long. Jenn was right...it needs to be about the love..no hate...just fans and friends, like you said, enjoying Rob. <3
I am... protective that is. He's been hurt enough don't you think? Us, his fans, why would we ever wanna post hurtful things that he might come here and see? That's why the no-bashing rule, Van. Makes sense, right?
Actually I overlooked the part of your comment about the post on how to comment and you only got it partially right...Yes we must respect ROB's co-stars but ALSO his friends, family and the people he cares about....that includes his girlfriend. So no it's not ok to be less respectful to Kristen on this blog just because she's no longer his co-star...But wait..that's not right either because she will forever be his co-star thanks to DVD. So the no bashing rule still applies to her and always will.
oh sorry about that. just one z short:)
i was kidding, you know that right? one z would be enough as well. ;-)
I used to post far more here, but I'm definitely put off by the bickering. Ive seen people castigated here, not for being hateful, but they just have just dared to say that they didn't happen to agree that they were in fact a couple. I do think Robsessed attracts many Robsten fans who can be very 'passionate' in their defence of Kristen, even sometimes when there is nothing to defend. I love talking about Rob, I love talking about his work, his goofiness and his future projects, but NOT his private life. Unfortunately there are far more hits to the threads that are about his life behind closed doors than there ever are about his work. The odd comment about Kristen has never bothered me, but now entire threads are spent gushing about every single look they give one another, (or fighting about it) and honestly, to me it seems intrusive. if Rob wanted his private life discussed, I'm sure he would talk about it. The fact that he remains schtum indicates to me that we should be a little more respectful about what speculations we make. The majority of people here are lovely, but I think there is definitely a trend here in people that think that if you are not a fan of Kristens then you cant be a fan of Robs and thats simply not true. Some of us just think its simply none of our business. :)
''fault lies on ''you''...that's pretty specific. Why don't you plainly say what you mean if you think I misunderstood you? If you don't reply that's ok, too.
I am must say I am a fan of theres... you know what they say..." all the world love a lover," I will look a pic of them out together... but if they never show a pic of them out together... I will be fine too. All I want is them to be happy. We all tend to tell people in RL to stay out of our personal life. I am not one to gust about the looks and analyzed every glance. My only annoyance is the constant bickering if when a photo is post... just talk and move on... no insult to either Kristan, each other and most of all to Robert.
the quotation marks meant the fault lies on both sides not only on others. I think I plainly said what i think. I did not discuss the point why hate or negative comments are disrespectful, i discussed why others feel hurt who never say anything negative. opinons are not allowed on this blog. not if it's against the opinion of others. even if they follow the rules. that's the point.
Sorry you feel that way. Actually we can all agree to disagree, those who like her or those who don't equally free to their own opinion and to say so as long as we are nice about it and there is no bashing or words that would be hurtful to Rob. How does that sound to you ?
hey Besideu. i just saw your comment. you know i think there are a lot of us who think similar about the problem. I read more comments like yours the last days and i argued like you too (except your suggestion. for me there is no solution except understanding and it does not happen). but i stopped to argue because it seemed useless and i don't have the energy nor the interest to argue with friends. I think most of us who think like that just go away or keep their opinion to themselves because its obviously not welcome. it's getting too much. and it's not the reason to be here to be constantly in arguementations about the fans. thanks for your comment, i feel very alone here sometimes with my opinion.
would be great if that really happened. :-)
I agree, the fighting is so sad. if the thread is about the pair of them, then its obvious fans of both with want to talk about them. I have no issue with that. I tend to avoid pap pics and topics concerning his private life as I honestly wouldn't speculate on anyone's business even if I know them personally, so those threads would not affect me. However, I do get frustrated when its constantly brought up in nearly every thread, as it often bears no relation to the topic. For those of us who would rather stay out of his private life feel like we have to wade through pages before we can join in the conversation. Sorry I hope you didn't think I was insinuating that you analyse every glance, I was just talking generally. :)
Sorry I have only just seen your comment, and although you've deleted it I wanted to reply. I think there are a few of us that feel the same. I certainly don't want to offend anyone, nor spoil anyone's fun but it seems that due to conflict the fandom doesn't seem quite so happy anymore. I think its fine to have an opinion, even if it differs from others and I do try and be respectful, but it is an open forum so we are allowed to be different. I may not be particularly interested in Kristen but I wont be nasty about her either. After all, I don't follow her career so know very little about her. There is a part of me though, and I'm not sure how dominant that part is (LOL) that wishes the interest in Robs private life could be dialled back a bit. No-one minds the odd comment, but there are other places to go for those who want to have long conversations about Robsten. It may just reduce the amount of bickering that seems to be the trend of late. :)
"Sorry I hope you didn't think I was insinuating that you analyse every glance..."
Not at all... we are just having a conversation... :-)
And I agree... I am sure Robert would want his private live discussed on every thread. The Mod will post some thing an I am sure they would like whatever is posted to be discussed in a civil manner on the thread and on the subject.. yet some one will brink something from another Blog with nasty words to annoy ones that like them both and then of course if you like them you are going to take offense and defend them... then the fighting will start and of course someone else is going to pipe in that it's not a Robsten Board then all hell break loose. By the way... I hate wen they short form their names.
I was too busy lately and just have find the time now to read this thread. Like your vision, sonja and will be pleased to join you in the middle: the neutral zone, nomansland.
BB, you and me against the world..lol
I'm sorry I deleted my comment. I feel like crying right now and i obviousy take it too personal. I think I need a break or comment less. But I love this blog and when there is no fight we all are happy and have fun. I always have so much to say, feel so many good emotions which i want to put into words. the mods do an amazing job i want to tell them everyday. i love so many here who are the loveliest and crazierest and funniest women when not in fight and bitch modus. obviously no one of them understands our pov. and i feel like shit when i read the conversations. i'm just not able to overlook it and then spend too much time thinking about it. so i need to change something at myself. it's something personal, not the fault of the blog... sorry for my comment to you, i needed to let it out to make my decistion official. others leave without saying something and i prefer that but i tried and it does not work. i dont want to make drama. and i'm back if we plan a joking session anyway. hopefully this old thread is a good place where not many see it i'm even now afraid of the comments. take care.
Aw don't be sad, there are many lovely people here so don't leave. I don't comment so much now, but I know things will sort themselves out eventually. The mods here do put a lot of time and effort into this blog, and I'm sure they welcome people from all viewpoints, as long as everyone remains respectful. Also, don't apologise for your comment as its really good to talk things over. Hugs. :)
LOL I agree. Even though I used the shortened version of their names I have to admit that I don't like it either Monique, as they are individuals and not a name blend. I'm hoping Christmas will bring some good cheer and everyone will chill out a bit. :)
We all lived in eternal hopes... doesn't we? LOL.
Unfortunatley for you, this one is reading old threads where she hadn't the time for yet.
I don't know who you are and I haven't read your first comment, 'cause you deleted it, but I'd say that you seem to be way too interesting as a person to stay away. When I tend to get too personal about what's written here I force myself to start thinking about my real life and people or situations around me. It helps me to get things into perspective and realize that though I really care for Rob and wish him all the best, he is like a virtual love for me. I can't influence his life, but i can count in the lives of my family and friends. And though I condamn the way he's treated by the paps, I know that a lot of people around me deal with problems much bigger than his' (economic crisis is getting more and more ugly). So when I click on this site, I leave my personal life a bit behind and enjoy my virtual life with my virtual friends and my virtual idol.
I wish for you the same so that you come here and discuss or make fun without getting your emotions too much in the way. Believe me, a lot of threads are funny and peaceful and it will become better and better. People here are trying to find a way to deal with disagreement and that's very good, it means that everybody is ready to find a way out and into a situation where almost everybody can find herself comfortable. This won't go from one day to another but the goodwill and the energy are there, where before many maybe hadn't the courage to express their opinions.
Hi bb, I totally agree with you and as always you find the right and wise word to epress it perfectly! Thank you! You ar a great voice of reason :)
bb, you are the kindest and most reasonable woman on this blog and even to a stranger "guest" you are so nice. I deleted my comment/name to not draw attention. And I hope it stays this way but I don't want to ignore you. I remember your last "long" reply to me and exactly like now i agree with you. i know the beautiful women on this blog. and i know i can't force everyone to think or behave a certain way. And I don't want that. I tried to discuss and argue but I feel I get the same answer every time. and the last fight on the Vote thread made me understand I need a break. I seemed to be the only one (of the verbal posters) who understood jubble and the reactions she got made me angry, the way she made everyone else there angry. I'm not leaving and I'm back for interesting stuff or joking with the girls (I had so much fun the other day with diccy and co) but to calm down a bit and stay a bit more ignorant to the comments i read i need a philosophical pause. Some fans don't hold back with their opinion and i feel indeed that people on this blog who think differently don#t feel comfortable to express themselves and feel the reasons why when do. i hold back to keep peace, because i know it's impossible that everyone on this blog can think like me, naturally there are different opinions and it's a good thing. but right now i feel a certain opinion is very dominant. i can't support that and at the same time i feel bad for the fans who are called trolls because they have a different opinion, i want to fight back, i want to become mean too. you remember me putting a mirrow infront of the other girl when i had a temper. The other day I became sarcastic to our friends on the blog - the not so nice sort of sarcasm. and before i write a hate letter (LOL kidding) I better calm down. I respect the rules of the blog, I do it like Tink suggested ignore if you don't lile something someone says or try to argue and discuss calm and reasonable. I show more love to Rob than possible, I respect his wishes and his rights as a private person. I am happy for him how lucky he is, how good his career developes. And that's what i want to show here. My real life indeed is more important and way more difficult to deal with. And I think my behaviour - even if i step back for now - shows that. Like I said, I'm back for fun and still work on my christmas video. xox
Thanks Besideu, your words are really appreciated. :-) I would wish you comment more. Hugs x
:) Mizz, ich glaube über eine Internetfreundschaft sind wir hinaus, oder. Ich bin deine Freundin und wenn du mir schreiben möchtest, ich habe immer ein offenes Ohr. In diesem Sinne, halt die Ohren steif und wenn du dich besser fühlst, freut mich das wirklich. Du bist uns sehr wichtig!
No, whence, just a voice like yours and all the others, but thanks. Like to read your comments too, maybe we should go to Rome once LOL
Like :-)
*hugs* That would definitely be fun! Sipping some Campari instead of SD tea?
Ihr seid uns beide sehr wichtig! Lots of love and Ben & Jerry´s to you :)
For me a glass of wine would be fine, thank you and after that a nice SD tea!! It was nice on that thread before it became that monster thread, wasn't it? Praying for Rob and so :))
These are really good memories :) We on out knees in the basilica..... and when I was tipping my toes in the Trevi fountain because you wouldn´t let me go dolce vita like ;) Such funny convos are outstanding! I like Campari with orange juice btw, mmmmm!But a glass of white wine would be ok too :D
Oh, Mizzz, I'm not lying when I tell you that I had to sit back for a while and had to remember my own advice I gave to guest about things getting too emotional, after having read your comment. It was quite an uppercut, but I hold on this straw that you'll come back for fun and so. I've just reread the comments on the "vote" thread, yours were as always very gentle. What you said about sarcasm and anger is something you find in yourself as you know yourself best, I guess 'cause I never noticed sarcasm or anger in your comments. Disappointment and fatigue at while, yes, but that's because you're a sensitive woman, not liking to discuss without a good outcome. I try to keep myself out of these discussions, or I enter only to enlighten the mood if I can, unless things go really bad, then I intervene.
To start a discussion isn't difficult, to know when to stop a discussion, that's something many here aren't very experted in or.... to stay out of it if possible. That's something we should more take care of, I think. Many feel the need to come to the defense of their friend, it's loyal and it's nice but sometimes it makes things more complicated 'cause the other one feels the more attacked and so on and so on. If there's a misunderstanding, the debate should stop after things have been explained between the two parties but it's like a snowball rolling from the mountain. I support the quote:" if you hurt one of us, you hurt us all" in certain situations, on a public blog though it can deter posters who are knew and not really aware of the do's and don't's.
Maybe I should not behave like an einzelgänger, but write these things more at the moment itself, but sometimes it's like dancing on a thin cord, trying to find a balance between the wish to express myself and the attempt to foresee eventual consequences.
There's a lot more I wish to discuss with you, but I can't publish my email here, for personal reasons (I would explain to you). I don't know if you wish to talk and, in that case, if I can get your mail one way or another.
If you're not interested, it's fine for me, you know that :)) Just hope to see you back after that philosophical pause and don't tell me you're gonna take this pause with Eric Packer LOL Very big hug, hope everything is well in your personal life, I'm a bit worried tbh.
Tbh, it was the first time I participated in a funny convo, in fact I think it was also the last time. I'm not good in English banter LOL
After our convo, things got heated and it become a monsterthread. But that couldn't take away the pleasure I had going to the Vatican and the Trevi fontain with you :))
shit (sorry!) bb, i did not want to worry you. i am emotionally all over the place, maybe that's a good excuse (i guess for others too LOL). I felt bad after I typed my comment. It was more defensive than a try to explain. stupid. I didn't plan to. I usually always try to be calm. And I told me before my reasons why I am here and why I should let go of this problem. Fun, friends and Rob. And obviously I'm ruining it with my emotional blabla. I feel the consequences. That's why i used the old thread and deleted my comment again. When I said I argue sometimes I meant not that I go into those discussions. there might be exceptions but usually never. I am more like you and come late or early to the party and leave soon. I try to explain my POV and make peace. What you said about the snowball effect is what I tried to explain before too. Also that misunderstandings lead to overreactions. That fans need to be open for different opinions. I only used 1 time sarcasm and I think my frustration started there. Not the right way. So your description of me was very accurate and i'm glad i don't look like i mean bad ;-) You are always welcome to write me but know you don't need to. we can stop that here now. :-) I'm not alone with my feelings. And now I want to celebrate christmas with all of you perverts and lunatics and sweet Robsessors. I am in christmas mood, i had really good days. and diccy made christmas avis for us.
Dear dear Mizzz, the only thing you can ruin is Rob's heart if he ever gets the chance to talk with you, that I'm sure of LOL.
I'm glad too that you know that you are always nice and calm. I've always had the feeling that we, and others too were on the same wave length but I strongly believe that at the end of the day almost everybody wants a nice civil discussion. Individual tempers get in the way at times and I've noticed that cultural differences are important too. In my country, we've still issues to express our opinion and go fo it, many here just back off when things get a bit heated. Dutch people (from the Netherlands) are stronger vocally, more assertive and American people don't seem to have a problem at all to state their opinion and defend it. Not only on this site but also on f.e. video's I've seen how easy they say what they think or feel and don't let themselves pushed away. I kind of admire that in a way: letting things of your chest and "feel free in a way you never did before" (sorry, couldn't let that go LOL. UK people often use their typical sense of humour to soften their words, how nice is that. This is all general speaking of course but for me it's interesting to notice.
Now, I can't tell you how glad I am that your philosophical pause was just that: a pause. It didn't take long with Eric either, did it? :) Try to remember this, Mizzz: fun, friends and Rob, in good and bad days, in health and sickness, in wealth and poverty, until death us separe LOL
I'll very willingly sit back, glass of wine near me and read your lovely naughty convo's with the others like I did a few days back. You know you're wellcome when things get downwards again :))
You made me laugh and smile with your first sentence, can I quote you on that? can come in handy on the next perv party! ;-)
Not sure if I'm typical German but i definitley have a lot Northern Germany characteristics. LOL
We two have good talks, always love them! and you are absolutely right, at the end we all want the same here on the blog. xox
Oh it would be a pitty if it was the last time because you were incredibly funny and I had such a good time! I hope that we will be kissed by the muse again (is that even an idiom in English???) and find some igniting topic sometime.....
i forgot to give you my email, if you still want to talk please write me. i would love to hear your thoughts. :-) mizzzar@gmx.de
I don't know if it's an idiom in English but I understand it and yes, we will be kissed by the muse. What a lovely idiom.))
I just read this and I beg you please don't go. Please don't leave us, not when we really need you now more that ever. You're quitting, just because there are people who doesn't like your and I mean your pov/opinion? That's crazy it's your opinion not theirs. You should leave because you want to, not because someone don't like the way you say something. Did they leave because you didn't like their comments? No, so don't be a quitter? Who are you hear for? Them or Rob.
If you are hear for them then you should leave, but if you are here for Rob then I didn't hear him telling you to leave did he?
Oh my friend, look at you always been nice. I am late to the party as unusual. But I am still making my comments.
Jen, that's what I like about you, you always try to be fair! I am late to everything lately.
Agree
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