My next vacation in the USA ... a tour of every airport ... camping there ... no so expensive and maybe a good way to see them passing by.... Going to reserve a (naughty) corner ... now!
@Andrea, please try to find and read her interviews for Elle and this other mag I don't remember the name. If you visit any twilight site they have both interviews there. You will heart the girl after reading these. Please go read them before you judge her so hard.
Andrea, maybe she doesn't smile because she knows there are paps and doesn't feel comfortable with them taking pics. That has nothing to do with the fact that she may be very happy for being next to Rob. She can be very happy, but not smilie in that very minute.
Or maybe that's her presonality. Every person is different. Like a spanish song says "don't think i'm sad if you don't see me smile...ways of driving yourself through life" oooh and even with the translation, that rhymes in english! yuju!
Dear Dina, I have made an observation about her. I was not nasty and deffinately not hard!! I will not go and read any of her interviews as I am not her fan - I have commented on her face which allways looks to me like she hates every minute of her HARD life! I am on this website because I am Rob's fan.
@ Andrea, it's ok, your free to coment but, if you say you don't go to read the interview about kris because you're not her fan, only rob fan, then why are you comenting about her? i mean, if you don't like her face, ok but be coherent with your ideas: you're not her fan, you don't read about her, maybe you shouldn't coment about her, am i wrong? just my opinion, obviuosly your free to coment like i already said. i just think it's very important being coherent
@Dina @Est-Rock--Waving hello. ITA with both of you. People will never be happy until she is doing what they think she should do. It's ridiculous.
Anyway, since this is a blog about Rob, let's focus on him. He keeps carrying his guitar through airports, is he creating new music. Will we get some songs on Eclipse, WFE or BD? I hope so!
that's an old rock song quite famous here (yeah, it's rock you know me and yeah, it's an old song, it's from 1981 and i was born in 1989 ;) i love the lyrics
Dear Est-rock, I understand what you are saying. But unfortunatelly she is on the same photo like Rob so I have made a comment about her face on these pictures.
I've notice R/K chased by papz since NM's shoot. After all speculation between piggy-ride and Sam's Concert,K's smile all gone.
Papz very rude, they're ask some rude question like "ru sleeping w/ him? ru married? ru cheating?"
Yeah I really want K smile when with Rob(just like Rob does, he cant hide his happiness), but really understand why she chose not smile and using her earphones.
I'am not her fan, but Iam understand her. Happy Rob make me Happy... and Happy Rob seem when he w/ Kstew
@ CL i think most of people don't usually read my coments and i understand it because i don't contribute nothing to the blog (i'm not very imaginative, and my english...well) but if you have read some coments of mine, you will see that i never (or almost never) coment on Kris (just in cases like this). But i don't know why the people who says this is only a rob site (i agree) and they're only rob fans, not kris, are the same people who sometimes brins kris up. i can't understand nothing (i understand they're in the same pic though)
Anyway, i hope he is creating music but i hope even more i could hear him live one day!
Believe me people talk about Biel not smiling ALL the time. And yes, she doesn't smile, there's nothing wrong with expressing one's opinion. It doesn't mean people hate Kristen, it means they are commenting just like you. You love seeing Rob and Kristen together you think she makes him happy etc. Someone else may have a different idea, they might even not like Kristen.
You don't need to be someone's fan to comment.
Just my 2 cents. Please don't be hard on people for just expressing their opinion. Not everybody has to like Kristen, not everybody has to like Rob either...
I don't think she wants to give them anything to feed off of including a smile. I don't blame her, they are animals.
Rob looks happy. I am sure we will see his smile disappear soon, now that he is in LA.
I love how Rob and Kristen keep their private lives private. I imagine it's a full time job. Both Rob and Kristen are amazing. the way they are handling all of this is impressive.
Smily Rob's always fun to see, but he doesn't ONLY smile when Kristen is around..he smiles alot when he is home in London too. I guess he's just in a happy mood lately lol. GOOD for him. He may also look fwd to work with Elephants soon lol.
I haven't read the Kristen interviews but she clearly is NOT keen on paps. She has every right not to smile at these paps. However I have seen her smily face in person and she really seems like an adorable but very shy and private girl. She didn't start in this biz to be a big mega movie star, but surely it doesn't hurt workwise for her of course. She is in the biz cos she loves acting. The creative part of it..the rest she just deals with her own way.
If I was K. I wouldn't smile too... I would bark like a dog defending my territory!!! Bau! Bau! Bau! (sound of a dog in italian!) But I would also wave my tail and put out a long tongue .... Actually this is what I do in front of each Rob's image ...
Smiling Rob - what better way to begin a Thursday. Whatever it is that the beautiful Kristen does to Rob that makes him smile gifts us with these pictures.
The power of his smile is a panty poofing good thing.
I agree with you you don't have to be afan to comment, that's why I didn't say "you don't comment about Kris", but i said "obviously you're free to comment" (you can read it above). In fact, i answar saying some reasons she has that face. And i think i haven't been hard, but if it it sounded like i was, i'm sorry.
Like i said too, i don't comment on R&K post or, when i do it, i just talk about Rob. But i respect people who talk about them or her. I was just meaning that we have to be coherent, if you say you're only a rob fan and this is a blog only about rob, is it coherent that you talk about Kris? i mean, of course you're free to do it, it's your opinion, but maybe you're not being coherent.
In conclusion My own opinion: R&K relationship none of my business (like i said on a thread a few weeks ago) Now: you want to comment about her face, ok you don't want to, ok you are only a rob fan, ok you are only a kris fan, ok you are a robsten fan, ok you are a Bobsponge fan, ok (i am!) you are a Santa Claus fan, ok
but please, coherence
BTW, why the fuck i'm talking about this if i said i don't comment on this? maybe i'm starting to be incoherent..so i'll shut the fuck up
I just enlarged the picture with both Rob and the guy behind Kristen "observing" her walk. She looks not only beautiful with the longer hair, but sexy as hell.
I don't give a rat's ass whether you're a "fan" of Kristen's or not, the fact that Rob kind of seems to like her, makes me at least cut her slack and give her some respect. I do resent snap judging her based on her facial expression when confronted with an army of flashing paparazzi cameras, invading her personal space, hooting and hollering out her name saying God knows what to get her attention every damn time she gets on or off an airplane!! Unless one is a total famewhore, this gets old really quick. Not only would I not be smiling, I'd be screaming or retreating into my own little world with earbuds firmly in place to shut out the mayhem.
Some thoughts on love and art and Kristen and Rob...
Back at the beginning Kristen was quoted as saying 'Rob can't lie'. Methinks this was early love projection. We see ourselves in others especially those that we love. In fact Rob 'lies' all the time although I prefer to think of it as creative thinking. I don't mean he's insincere. Far from it. I mean that he intuitively protects himself with words, deflects a probing question with generalities or the first damn thing that comes into his pretty head. He never fully reveals himself in interviews, not the inner core of himself. I think he saves that for his work.
Kristen on the other hand is about as raw and vulnerable and exposed in interviews as you can get. She tries to be honest, answer the question, be true to herself. She doesn't have that protective layer. She might grow into it, learn how to protect herself. She might not.
I'm older than Kristen. Muuuch older. I'm an artist. Emotional responses go straight from my brain to my hands and bypass my mouth completely. In public I'm shy to the point of muteness. At best I come across as cold and remote and at worst as a social nitwit. There's nothing I can do about this, you can't have everything. My work is more revealing than anything I could say about myself to anybody, except a few close people. So I can relate to Kristen. And I don't give a flying fuck if she can't say her own name to some celebrity parasite or Rob tells me he sleeps standing on one leg with all the lights on. They're actors, they work hard, they're pouring themselves into it. They're revealing their truest selves to us in their work. And as has been said here many times before they don't owe us a thing other than that.
@Est-Rock, I hope that was coherent enough? Shouldn't be posting now as I'm at work, but can't help myself. I do agree with you about "coherence" in one's point of view when commenting.
Am i the only one seeing one picture of him smiling and its one where Kristen is not in the picture? Everyone puts so much emphasis on when they are together and what he looks like and what he is doing....i see nothing different to if he was walking with Taylor or another co-star.
*shrugs*
I have come to hate seeing Robert and Kristen through paparazzi eyes, which is why i don't buy anymore magazines. I haven't bought one since the new year.
Does anyone know what he is doing now? Has he finished with Bel Ami?
Just one more comment on these pictures. Why does Kristen look so pissy? I know she is sick of the paparazzi, but they are a fact of life for them at least until the saga is complete. Smile once in awhile. Take a cue from Rob. I love her and more than anything I love them, but she could try not to look so surly so much of the time.
@ShariG, see my comment above. The paparazzi are more than a nuisance, they're verbally abusive, can cause accidents, and will do or say anything to get a money shot. Both R&K despise this attention, whether it comes with the territory they've chosen to tread or not. They did not invite it into their personal lives, smiling or responding in any way only encourages it. I'm outta here...
I've said before that I've seen her in person at one of the talk shows she did last year. She was very nervous and VERY shy. You can tell the attention makes her uneasy and nervous. She's not being a bitch at all. Remember, she is young and all this is hard to handle...the paps and all. Rob seems like he's getting better at handling it. He's a bit older too.
@cerulean: like your thoughts but I thought when Kristen was talking about "lying" she meant more in relation to acting - that Rob can't help but give a truthful response as a person when acting. At least, that's the context I was applying. It meshed with something Paul Morrison had said as well.
Yeah Kristen looks mad but she just stepped off the airplane and the pappz are there waiting...i would be mad too. But Rob looks great and the tongue YIKES :0
So much to catch up on this morning and plus i actually have work to do this morning :( but seeing these pics of rob make it all the better.
Smiling/Not Smiling Together/Not Together Love KStew/Hate KStew Love Rob/Love Rob :)
No matter the opinion, yes we all have a right to express them. Mature, respectful comments of ALL opinions is what makes this world the place it SHOULD be.
It's when the comments get rude, disrespectful, and vicious that makes me not want to even read through the comments or post one of my own.
It has been pleasant around here for a little while now, and I would like to say how much I appreciate mature and reasonable expressions of opinions.
This is a happy place for all! Love you guys!!!
@Gozde Great to hear from you!
@cricrila
LMAO! I would freaking bark like a dog to protect my territory too! Especially if that territory were ROBERT FUCKING PATTINSON!!
It seems to me, when I see airport photos of them just landing, they are saying or thinking-- the vultures are already here and waiting, and it wipes the smiles they mght have had after enjoyng each other's company. I find it interesting that when we see photos of ROb getting off a plane and he looks distressed, even as if he has been crying or at the verge of tears, everyone can understand, explain that he is tired, just got off a plane, cannot stand the pappz who are waiting to spring upon himself, or that he is overworked, stressed out, etc, yet when seeing Kristen not cheery and smiley-faced, have a totally different way of looking at her and her situation. We have seen so many clips of her laughing, enjoying Rob, enjoying friends, enjoying life, enjoying interviews, that we know she can and does smile and appears to absolutely adore Rob; we have heard herself say she is scared and overwhelmed sometimes and we see Rob very protective her, running interference at his own risk of exposure so she can get away safely; we have heard some clips of the pappz shouting such disgraceful and personal 'remarks' and challenges that we ought to understand why the BOTH of them are usually stiff and dour when faced with the gauntelet of pappz. It is almost heartbreaking to me not only that they have to deal with all of that, when they are both shy, quiet people who have made it clear they appreciate the fans but not the stalking intrusion and rudeness, that they don't want to give them anythng--certainly not a smiling photo--but that they also have to deal with 'fans' who resent her presence with him (she gets some terrible remarks on boards, postings, and mail; I believe she has received threats), that these 'fans' cannot give the same benefit of the doubt, and searching for reasons for serous or glum faces, that they give to ROb.
Now they finally look like they are together. Rob always looks so happy when he is with Kris and she looks worn out, if you know what I mean. I like them as a couple for they are so much alike and they intend to keep their personal lives just that, personal and private. Can't wait to see Oprah's show next week. Hope Kris is planning a big birthday for Rob.
I love this happy sexy couple. I like to think that Rob is licking his lips because he is looking at her a$$ and then he noticed the dude next to him doing the same thing and was like WTF dude!
All in all, all I can say is Kristen is kicking a$$ and taking numbers in these pics. This comes to mind...
i have to say this, Kstew is very sexy in this photo, look at that hips, awww! most of her outfits are so cool, none of the hollywood fashionistas style,thats why Rob also like her, she is just being true to herself.they both look good together and i wish them all the best, whatever relationship they have.I think Kstew is more mature than her age, Rob says that too in one of his interview.they always wore matching outfit and its kind of sweet,in my opinion, though..sometimes when you really like a person you kind of copy whatever he does, i guess...anyway, Rob is still hot just like what everybody else have said, HAPPY ROB HAPPY ME. now i can go to sleep..night Rob
Most of you blame people who don't like Kristen. What i don't like, it's you dream up such things as when he went to Vancouver to shot eclipse where supposedly she was "Oh, He's smiling, looks SO happy, our boy had HOT night with K!" Then it turns out she's not in Vancouver. she's in NY Costume Gala. It's ridiculous! As you can think and say so, why others can't be negative about her. And ROB, he's mostly smiling, with or without her and not because of her. I love him!!! I don't like her.
Solas, I agree with everything you said. I'm sure that if Rob were dating a different woman there would be petty remarks made about her as well. Now I know some people say they would dislike K even if she wasn't with Rob, but by and large the majority of the criticism would wane if they weren't together. It makes me ashamed of women to read the petty stuff on other boards. Really, Rob doesn't care what people think of his dating choices!
I have always thought that death threats is one of the reasons why R&K don't verbally confirm they are together. Although really one doesn't need a verbal confirmation to figure this one out.
People in THIS fandom rag on Kristen Stewart for one reason and one reason only and that reason is...
Robert Pattinson is in love with her.
Period.
If he were in love with Camille Belle or Ashley Greene or you or me...then those girls or you or me would be the targets. Even if we smiled all damn day long. They'd find something else to pick out and criticise.
It' called 'irrational' jealousy whether they recognize it or not. They probably don't. They just tell themselves...'I just don't like her.'
When he arrived, she was still there, but she did leave before him. And after a two week seperation from each other, we were JOKING about them getting back together again.
Nik, it blows my mind that there's an entire website (nonsten) that's devoted to tearing Kristen down. Really, don't you people have better things to do with your time?
I think people do like Kristen. But people do not like when she always looks so pissed when she is with Rob .. Whether they are a couple, but no one knows.!?! Any woman who is together with Rob, no matter if only as a friend or lover must shine like the sun. LOL Seriously LOL All I can see is. Rob and his tongue is so damn hot. Rob, watch your tongue. It will kill us. And I love it when he is not shaved
Just read your post Solas and you nailed it. Perfect.
And all of this 'over the top' jealousy where he is concerned, I would imagine is what has, in the past, caused this girl to use words like 'psychotic' to describe the fanbase and 'covet' when describing their desire for him.
I always thought that when Kristen said that 'Rob can't lie' she was referring to a couple of things; his work (he can't fake it) and his feelings.
As for the bullshit of celebrity (interviews, sound bites), oh hell yeah, he can lie all damn day long. Or just make up shit for our entertainment and his own.
But I really do think she was referring to the things that matter.
You know what? Sometimes when my fungirling leaves me alone and I go back to 45 mature woman mother of three, I really like for all women's sake that instead of her acting like WOW I date Robert Fucking Pattison he is like WOW I date Kristen Fucking Stewart.
Dina: ..... Amen! Why shouldn't he be singing the Hallelujah chorus himself?!
Cerulean: very insightful. I think Rob's verbal diarrhea is often misunderstood as a big gush of uncontrolled "truths." I see him as spinning tales to partially reveal himself while "cryptically" keeping much of his inner self hidden protectively away. He may be very genuine, but he is not naive and has formed his own special self-protective shell that is only reinforced by his "spouting." Kris appears to be another story. She doesn't do tall tales well, as you say she's still very raw and hence more vulnerable, which makes the protective snarl all the more necessary. I, for one, get that, and don't want a megawatt smile.
I'm kinda new here-- well, I've been reading this blog for the past year, but never posted-- so, I'm an obsessed lurker :)
I'm totally excited to see them walking the airport together as a couple (pro-Robsten). At the defense of Kris, she's said in previous interviews that she doesn't want to give the "fiending"--the wonderful annoying paps ANYTHING. I've recently read her Elle and Flaunt interviews and I'm deeply saddened that she is assaulted in such a maddening way. I couldn't even comprehend that feeling! She's young and learning how to deal with being famous and she doesn't want to be like the others-- it's her being different that is attracting such attention to her. I must admit I think that different is good. She's not a typical HW star, nor is Rob.
As to their relationship, there is probably plenty of reason why they don't just come out and admit they are together-- and why should they?!? (albeit, I'd love to hear it myself, but their actions towards one another speak volumes)
With regard to leaving Kristen out of the picture in a Rob blog, I don't think that's possible seeing that those two are affiliated in everything since they started Twilight. Plus, I believe I once read either at this blog or another that a blog dedicated to Rob includes everything that is important to him-- and it's completely obvious that Kris is.
I don't think Kristen looks pissed when she is with Rob, as WE DON'T KNOW WHAT SHE LOOKS LIKE WHEN SHE IS REALLY WITH HIM!!!!! We only know what she looks like when they are intruded upon and snapped! And most of Rob's facial expressions are serious or distressed or glum or downright pissed when he is hunted and pappzed; he smiles for fans. If Kristen were photographed as much as Rob, it could very well be the amount of smiles and serious expressons would be equivalent, and if she were photographed by fans without fear of being threatened, she would be smiling as well.
I don't come here to burst someone's bubbles. I just want to express myself as a Robsessed fan. This is the first time I am seeing Rob's photos since he got back from VANCOUVER. After he stayed in UK for more than two weeks alone w/ his family I am looking at the new Rob. He is more subdued, barely smiling but seems in control of himself and his situation. He has grown mature after all he's turning 24 this month.
I don't come here to burst someone's bubbles. I just want to express myself as a Robsessed fan. This is the first time I am seeing Rob's photos since he got back from VANCOUVER. After he stayed in UK for more than two weeks alone w/ his family I am looking at the new Rob. He is more subdued, barely smiling but seems in control of himself and his situation. He has grown mature after all he's turning 24 this month.
BTW--the fact that Rob is holding a pen or marker in the photos where he is smiling, tells me that he is dealing wtih a fan (or fans) for that one; he does smile for the fans, just not the pappz. The pappz got that photo not because he wanted to give them a smile, but becasue in spite of them he was smiling for fans.
And that guy really DOES look like he is looking at Kristen's bum! And Rob does seem to be looking at him looking at her, with raised brows as if to say-- Hey-- are you lookng at my girlfriend's bum???
I am extremely calm. No anger or upset in my posts at all. Just observations. Now if I run out of reeces peanut butter cups?...Oh my. Then the shit will fly.
And Jenny... Welcome. And I think (just me, just what I think) that part of the reason why they're keeping mum about this aspect of their lives is because...so much of their lives are already exposed. They've had to give it all up for this franchise; their freedom, their privacy and their anynimoty (I'll never spell that word right). Must they give up their love affair too? Can't they keep just this to themselves? Well. They're giving it the old college try. But it's only a matter of time before someone gets the 'money shot.' ABSOLUTE confirmation. And then all of this shit will really kick in?
"They're secretly married"
"She's pregnant"
Blah. Blah. Blah.
And of course those who will not believe, even a confirming money shot will not convince them.
"Oh, that pic is photoshopped."
And Dina... I think you hit the nail on the head. I don't think he can believe that she's actually his. I think he thinks he hit the jackpot with Kristen Stewart.
You just keep on thinking that boy. You'll be the happier man for it.
But how can we have discussions about Rob without the conversations sometimes involving Kristen? She's a part of his life now, both professionally and personally. If they break up and he gets a new squeeze, we'll talk about her too.
Hel. If he walked around in public with a toy poodle named Howard, we'd be talking about...Howard too.
Were talking about his work and his life here and she's part of both.
I get the feeling that if Rob were asked what his Twilight fame brought him that he was the most grateful for, he would say something like this:
3) it got me off my arse & doing something fulfilling and rewarding that's given me the power to experiment with artistic endeavours and support others' projects,
2) my success has helped spur the careers of my best buds whose music careers are starting to really bloom thanks to all this crazy fame, and
1) I got to work with, learn from, woe and actually win the fierce woman of my fantasies, and she's even better than in my dreams.
I think he's a damn grateful and happy man right now, as he well should be!
I do like the fact so much, that Kristen wears his clothes so often. The hoodie she´s sporting is Robs. And I can relate to that very much. To smell the scent of the one you love makes you feel secure.
im surprised that kristen hasnt thrown elbows yet. I would have been fighting some paps if they were waiting for me outside an airplane. Im glad she's staying composed but i might go crazy.
and another thing, why is it that people are so caught up on her smiling. do you smile all the time, everyday cause i sure dont. i dont even think i smile unless im laughing.
Welcome, Jenny. Yes, you read it here that a blog about Rob should encompass all that is important to him, in so many words. I was the one who wrote it, although not necessarily the only one. Nik has just reiterated that opinion and also, made a good point that Kristen is both professionally AND personally linked to Rob, ergo she will be mentioned...often. The good news is that the people who would have absolute shit fits everytime her name came up here and start fights, seem to have given up and gone elsewhere.
@Gozde, excuse me, "not everybody has to like Rob, either." I would suggest that anyone who comes to ROBsessed and wants to put their 2 cents in, damn well better "like" Rob Pattinson. Otherwise, I believe it's called "trolling"??
@Solas, Losida, Nik, Dina, cerulean and Jenny (welcome)
All you ladies ROCK, and (aside from the obvious....Rob)are the reason I'm still here 1 year later. I love to hear your insight on all things and in regards to this paticular subject you ALL are RIGHT ON!!!
IMO its been pretty amazing to watch this relationship unfold right before our eyes, and I respect them both for their commitment to one another on keeping their personal lives as private as they can possibly keep it.
Kudos to you Rob and Kris!!!!
@dina...lmao on your comment "when the fangurl leaves me alone, and I return to a 45 yr old mature mother of 3, I like the fact that instead of WOW I'm dating Robert Fucking Pattinson and instead it's like WOW I'm dating Kristin Fucking Stewart" How many times have I said the very same thing!!!!
And on that note this 45 yr old fangurl must leave this site NOW so she won't be late to work! (see what you guys do to me...LOL)
@Solas: :DD I think he'd actually just be getting an eyeful of the backpack. However, it is a..er...bum he's paid to protect so I guess he has a right to 'watch' it...lol
When Angie-K and I were in NY for Robstock I, we saw Kristen. She stopped right in front of us at the RM premiere, signed autographs and even had her picture taken with Angie. She was nothing but gracious, sweet and kind. She also SMILED. She is terrific with the fans, it's the rats with cameras that she doesn't like.
I just went back and looked at the pictures again and I am LMAO! The picture where Rob has his head turned and tongue out, really does seem to lead one to believe he is totally checking her butt out. Despite the craziness, the ugliness and the invasion into their PERSONAL lives, they are still just a normal couple. It's awesome.
Thanks for the warm welcome ladies :) It seems that this past year I've lived and breathed Twilight with a special emphasis on Rob and Kristen. I've never been so "addicted" or interested in the chemistry between any actors/actresses in HW. Can't wait for Eclipse!
So Kris doesnt grin like the cheshire cat when she walks thru an airport!! so fucking what - she definately just adopts the 'look forward, keep walking in a straight line 'til I get where I'm going' and gives nothing away. How could Oprah even ask such a personal question ?? THEY ARE NEVER GOING TO ADMIT they are together!!! surely this is obvious now!! like Kris said the questions would just move on to be more intrusive so private is going to stay private! I think Kris is great , talented and a real individual ! good luck to them both - Kris is one lucky girl and Rob a lucky boy - anyone who says they are a Rob fan then slags off his girlfriend is not a real Rob fan and should think about how offensive they must be to Rob .
i thought you were banned from here for trolling before. If you dont like what people have to say, there is a red X at the top right corner of the screen to close the window.
When Kristen's name comes into the conversation, that conversation tends to take off; in the negative (those who can't stand the idea of him with her or with anybody else come to think of it) and those in the positive (that are happy for him no matter who he loves).
I can't tell you how many times I've heard that when Kristen's name comes up in conversation (from those around town who've worked with her or have had encounters with her), that she is described as 'sweet.' I've heard that word applied to her over and over. And this is from people 'in the know.' And I'll trust people in the know as oppose to those yammering away on the internet who don't know much of what it is they're talking about in the first place. Even Rob has used that word to describe her and I figure if anyone would know (living together when they see each other at their worst; morning breath, yanking smelling socks off of their feet, needing a shower, running to the toliet at both ends, when she's PMSing, when he's having a panic attack and melting down because of all of THIS and don't think he doesn't, but it's all behind closed doors)...it would be him.
And hey John... Another boy. Oooh. I wikes me some boys. They're so cute. And yeah, I'm surprised neither one has thrown an elbow yet. They're handling this with such grace. Better than I would. Although I've thought for some time now, if she ever gets hurt in a crush of photogs (and I think people forget just how tiny she is), I think we could see boyfriend get a little tough with them. Oh just once. Wouldn't you like to see him clock one of them? And then of course they'd bring him up on assault charges and haul his ass into court. And he knows it. It's actually what they want. One of them would gladly take a punch if it could cause a scandal. But anyway (rambling here. yeah. they know) Like you said...I get Kristen too.
And just for the record... I'm damn grateful to her. If Rob were still walking around carrying a torch for an unrequited love, I wonder how different he might be today? Imagine if he knew that she cared just as much as he did, but she opted to not get involved with him because of the fame, the scrutiny and the threats that have come her way (and yes, they have BOTH been threatened and that's not speculation. That's a FACT). Imagine if she'd passed and he had to face the fact that he lost his chance with her because of something as meaningless as fame? That's the kind of thing that could haunt a person for a very long time. You'd always wonder, 'what if.' What if we'd just met under normal circumstances? What if? But fortunately, that's not what happened. She took a chance and I do believe his life is the better for it. So yeah, I'm grateful to Kristen. She apparently makes him happy and with all that's happened in his life, all that's been taken away from him, at least he found this girl in all of that madness.
And so I'd say...he's way ahead of the game. If you get to be with the person you love, then handling the shit lives throws at you has got to be easier to deal with. Like I said, imagine how things would be for him right now, if he never got his chance with her?
We've had enough of your PERSONAL attacks on people. Say what you want to say (and you can think that were all nuts and you're just above it all), but stop going after 'specific' people in such a nasty way.
I mean, I guess you can keep on doing it. Your keyboard. Your opinons. But it's not going to get you anywhere. So what is the percentage in doing it over and over? What are you getting out of this? Putting silly fangirls in their place? Okay. Thank you. Were in our place.
You can be so damn funny and full of fun. Some of your comments have had me on the floor. I even tried to reach out to you after you came after me. I wrote you that silly Here Comes Robbie's Claus. And it worked for awhile. You were nice, but then...you went off again and here I am doing what I said I never would...responding to you.
It's just that I think there's a funny, intelligent person in there who could add so much to the fun around here, but then...it goes skewampus and you're back to throwing daggers.
And I don't know why I care. But I do. Something about you has struck a chord in me. I want you to come here and have fun with all of us and yeah, when we get over the top silly, sure, go ahead and mock a little. That's okay. But you can just get so visious and most of all personal. Why? Why does it have to be this way? Were not doing anything important here Kember, were just playing.
I think that you could be one of the best contributors on this blog. But you've blown it to which I would assume you'd respond with...'I don't care' (as you've said this before). But if you don't care, why are you here? I mean, why spend a single moment of your life commenting about an actor and the fans who love him almost EXCLUSIVELY to put them down and make them feel small or silly or bad about themselves for having gone a little ape shit over him? Why would you bother, if you really don't care?
What is it that you dare care about?
(oh something tells me I'm really gonna regret this post)
I just had to go back and read your post again. It was just great and I know that alot of people here have told me that I express what they're feeling and I'm very flattered by that. But you know...
Alot of you express just what I'm feeling too and do it alot better than I can. I've wanted to say that for some time now, but haven't.
Could it be because I'm too busy expressing my thoughts? Yeah. That's probably it.
I love this place and the overall good feelings that we express for one another and for Rob and Kristen. I don't read other sites, but I've heard it's a cesspool out there. No thanks. I'm happy where I'm at.
sometimes its worse than the israeli's and palestinians on this blog.. jeez.
everyone please respect one another. we all know what divides us on this blog and this is EVERYTIME. I know I am just as guilty as the next person when it comes to commenting on R&K. its obvious kristen isnt going anywhere anytime soon. so those who dont like her have to suck it up and deal with it and the same goes for those that adore her and want to have pillow fights with her. at the end of the day it doesnt matter. they dont care whether we like them together or not. they just want to be left alone.
if you have seen me on this blog before then you all know where my allegiance stands, but i am actively trying to support rob in his decisions. it makes me happy to see him smile. it makes me happy when we all get along and can shoot the sh*t and joke around. i havnt been on lately because i have had a lot of finals, but i will say this. it is possible to get along whether you love or hate kristen and agree and disagree with his decisions. I have few friends on here who love kristen and even my best friend is a huge kristen fan. a lot of what we say gets either lost in translation or it is interpreted in a different way because we cant easily read facial expressions or tone of voice.
i know its a long shot for us ALL to get along, but please try to be nice not attack anyone. We are all fans of ROB. This blog is for Rob. We don;t all have to like each other the same way all of us dont have to like Kristen, but its important to be respectful of one another. Refraining from calling people names is on the top of my list.
and in all seriousness, none of us know whats good for Rob. Perhaps Kristen is a good thing and perhaps she isnt. It doesnt matter. If she makes ROb smile then so be it. I would rather him be with her and smiling than be unhappy without her. I hope you all feel the same
She does seem to b exhausted when they've been together and he's all smiles. Hmmmm....
I would b pissy and sporting a major b'otch face too if I just came from wherever,spent who knows how long on a plane breathing recycled air, sitting next to someone who prob can't sit still for more than five min and really needing a ciggy. Then to top it off by walking out to cameras flashing and people screaming at u. Aww F that !! I they r doing a great job handling it ! Personally I would b ready to shove my complementary peanuts up someones @ss !!
Oh. Thank you for that. And yeah, I guess I do wear my heart on my sleve. Always have. I don't know why. When I love someone or something, I just love 'em and it's hard to hold back what I'm feeling.
And doing it on a public blog can get your teeth kicked in but...if I'm not gonna express what I'm truly feeling, then what's the point?
I'm the same way. A person can always tell how I am feeling regardless of the situation. If I'm in a bad mood then people will now it.
While I do believe people should have an opinion. I also feel like in this blog you have to tread lightly. Oh how I would looooove to say what I feel majority of the time, but I know that people will either misinterpret or find me aggressive and mean. If you can say what you feel without backlash then more power to you, but its different when you like kristen. if you like her there is no backlash. its when you dont like her is when everyone jumps on your back for just having an opinion.
hope everyone is treating you well and not kicking you teeth in =) you seem nice and give a lot of thought to your responses.
Nik--sometimes, when we see a spark of something in a person who is going thru cycles of behaviour where some of the cycles are wonderful and some are hateful, we engage when we really ought not; it is like enabling in a really not good way for a really not good cycle behaviour. And this can be taken as a general rule, not agaisnt any one person or any specific group of people.
"ready to shove my complimentary peanuts up someone's ass."
I almost spit my coffee out onto the screen. Good one girl.
And sissi... I don't know how much I 'rock' and I know I shouldn't respond as it just feeds the psychosis. But dammit, sometimes I just can't help myself, especially when she goes after someone else for no damn reason.
And Steph... You're absolutely right. It is possible (and for the most part, I think we accomplish it), that we can express our different and varying feelings about him, her, whatever, without attacking one another. If not, I would have left this site long ago.
Anybody remember Jimmy Stewart and Henry Fonda? They were life long best friends (for over 50 years) and they despised one another's politics. Jimmy was a die hard conservative and Henry a bleeding heart liberal. They were roomates in Greenwich Village when they were still in theatre before they're film careers took off. And Jimmy told this story of how they got into a bloody fist fight over politics and they were out brawling in the street in the snow. After that they agreed to never talk about politics again. And they didn't, for the rest of their lives. And they loved each other until the end of their lives.
My lifelong best friend and I are the same. She's a Rush Limbaugh Republican and I'm a Bullworth Democrat. And we know that we can't go there or else we'll say things that could hurt or anger the other. So...we refrain. And we've known each other since she was 5 and I was 8 and I imagine we'll still know and love each other when she's 95 and I'm 98.
As long as she doesn't bring up Rush Limbaugh. Kidding
But yeah. We can do it too. We are...for the most part. And considering were doing it on the internet where it's easier to express negative thoughts without having to take responsibility for them...I think were doing a pretty damn good job.
Just don't anybody mention Rush Limbaugh. That man makes me want to jab a fork in my eye...or his.
I can only imagine how difficult it must be for some to hold back their feelings about Kristen. Expressing my feelings for her is easy because I really like this girl. Whether she was Rob's girl or not, I like her. From all appearances, she's my kind of girl. I 'get' her.
But I have wondered, what if he'd taken up with a Megan Fox or Lindsey Lohan or that nasty Olivia Thurlby (whom he was going to shoot Parts Per Billion with). If he had, as forthcoming with my opinions as I am, would I have been able to hold my tongue? I'd like to think so and show some respect for his choices, but I'm thinking, I could have very well struggled with it too. And would I feel differently about him personally (not his talent) if I thought he was with someone that I believed to be a not so decent person? Or someone who appeared not to appreciate him enough. It's an interesting question and one I might be faced with one day. There's nothing saying that he's going to remain with Kristen for the rest of his life. He could very well take up with a REAL nasty bitch someday.
And yes Solas... I shouldn't have responded. I knew it was a mistake when I was doing it. Guess I'll just have to keep trying to hold my tongue. It's just that when she goes after someone else, it's hard to let it go by. But I'll keep trying.
Oh. And Steph... I don't know how much thought I give to my posts. I really am just typing off the top of my head. If I were to sit down and actually think about what I wanted to say, I might actually say something of worth. It would at least be alot more coherant.
And with that, I must away. Got seven boquets of flowers for Mother's Day to get ordered.
Hey. How come we don't have a 'barren Old Maid' day? We need love too you know. LOL!
you hit the nail right on the head. Its easy when you like Kristen, but when your on the other side it isn't. Out of all of the women you listed I would pick Kristen 100x over, but I am glad you actually do consider my point of view too. it is really appreciated.
And Delle 1... Is your avi a 'real' shot of them or has it been manipped? 'Cause WOW! That is a hot shot and just what photo shoot did that come from?
And yeah Solas... Look at James Carville and Mary Matalin. They've managed it, haven't they? Supposedly, they have one of the happiest marriages in all of politics. I always thought that their love story would make for one hell of a movie. With Billy Bob Thornton playing James (he already played a variation of him in Primary Colors) and maybe...um...Mary Louise Parker as Mary.
I've tried to NOT comment on this very subject. Tried really hard. Every time. Every day. Every moment. Cause I know it's a very touchy topic. Very. And hot. And dangerous. And unnecessary. Cause it's NOT our business. Cause we can't do a damn thing about it. Cause even if we could, we wouldn't. I think u got it.
BUT I must say/make a short notice anyhow: (just like Nik, I can't shut the f..k up about things I feel strongly about, & just as Nik, I do have a very precise opinion about almost everything, so...)
I may not like KS's style or acting or facial expressions. But I've definitely learned to - RESPECT HER. A lot. She IS (just suppose!)Rob's partner in this cosmic madness. His soul mate, his very best friend, his support, shelter, brother in arm, object of admire, love... Someone he's chosen among millions of human beings he could've picked... And he picked her... Our beloved boy has chosen Kristen. And we all respect him & his choices, I think. Just imagine this tiny little gal(with Rob, of course) sitting there on Oprah's couch. The very same couch where we saw that lunitic TC jump and scream about his life's love, KH. The very same couch there we saw Julia Robert talking about the big love of her life (his husband) & about her precious twins. Or Brooke Shields about her depressions after giving birth to her daughter. The same couch there we could follow the biggest movie stars/TV personalities/musicians in the entire world open their hearts & souls & answer the most intimate questions for the BIG Oprah W. THE Oprah W. And now just imagine the extremly shy & private Kristen sitting there on the couch with Rob and confront the big Oprah's question. THE question. And it seems that these young kids succeeded with "mission impossible" - they've left Oprah without answer, they've succeeded to keep their integrity intact & their most intimate corners of their souls untouched. And I call it a minor f..king miracle! And I must admit my respect 4 Kristen Stewart & my endless love AND huge respect 4 Robert Pattinson have never been bigger. And again - AMEN TO THAT!!! Hugs
I love the pictures and news posted on this site, check on it almost every day. Thank you for such hard work! And I have to admit that my guilty pleasure is to read the comments whenever Kristen pops up in the pictures. Sometimes the smallest comment such as "smile girl" will get everyone in a tizzy. I'm not one to bash someone, but I'm also not going to defend them like my loved ones. I do not feel sorry for Kristen, not even a little bit. If she's tired of it all, she can quit. Really. She can. It's a choice we all have. She could go to college and get a job at a Starbucks, people would forget about her in two weeks. That's how loyal Hollywood and fans are.
I read parts of the Elle article and it bothered me even more. I respect her decision of not talking about Rob. That's her choice. But saying no one cares more than she does? That is very arrogant of her. And if she really is that uncomfortable at galas and events, so much that she is driven close to tears, well... don't go! And stop wearing those micro-mini outfits that scream for attention! She is very contradictory.
So no, I don't feel sorry for the poor girl who has a dream job, money, good looks and a pretty boyfriend. No, I feel sorry the people in Haiti, or people who can't feed their kids, or people who are unjustly sent to jail, or people who work 70-hour weeks and can hardly afford rent, or people who are sick and alone... nope, no place to pity this gorgeous, young, talented girl who has what so many other don't: a choice.
Guys, seriously, don’t feel bad for her because she has to deal with paps. There are far greater evils in this world. Paps are part of the deal, they come along movie franchises and magazine covers. They come alongside the buckets full of money and glamorous life. We all have jobs, right? And there are aspects of it that suck. She needs to understand this, make a decision to either stay or leave, and if she stays… she needs to learn how to smile. She really does.
Well said & Agreed. I do have some respect for her though and I do feel bad a little, but there are more important things to sympathize with....especially since she has control over the situation surrounding her. She knows that the paps wouldnt hound her if she stayed away from Rob, but she willingly does so anyway. I know we all love Rob, but if that was your life would you want to be in Kristen's shoes? I know you all want to say yes, but really take the time to think about it for a second. Your life would be put under a microscope. Every hideous birth mark, double chin, cellulite spot, crazy hair day, fashion faux pas would be deconstructed. She is this little indie actress. She wants to act -thats it-. I kind of have to sympathize with her because she cant even be with her bf without being hounded. She could easily end this all with the snap of her fingers and it would stop the madness, but then what? Poor Rob is left behind and the same goes for Kristen. I dislike her immensely, but she makes him happy so i cant fault her for it. She has to take the good with the bad.
I am pretty sure she feels Rob is worth it to endure the amount of abuse she receives daily and that is very admirable.
I also agree with the contradictory part, but that is neither here nor there. I am kind of 50/50 on whether or not to sympathize, but I still try to picture myself in her shoes. I honestly dont think I could do it. I like being nobody important. I enjoy my privacy immensely.
Oh, I agree. I ADORE my privacy. But then again, I'm not an actress, staring in a humongous movie franchise. I understand the fact that she is shy, so many public personas are. But she crosses the line, from shy to sour.
You can't really expect to be working on three movies a year, be on so many magazines, so many TV shows, and still get privacy. Again, it's a contradiction. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
The funny thing about celebrities is that if they do fall out of fame, they seem to want it back no matter the cost. They bitch about the over-attention and then, after they are finally left alone, they’ll desperately want it back and do anything it takes.
I admire her acting skills (the very least in the Twilight movies), I think she is beautiful and can be funny in a smart way. But she does get to my nerves with her uncomfortable grins, micro-skirts and angry attitude. I guess she just really doesn’t know what it’s like to have it hard. She is 20 and on top of the world. Let’s not pity the gods on Mount Olympus. Yes, they may get their share of drama (mostly caused by boredom and over-indulgence), but we just get hell down here. She seems pretty lucky to me, with or without the drool-worthy boyfriend. And I do hope she realizes it before it’s too late and gone. OR, realizes that it’s really all just crap, that she wants a nice and quiet life, and goes of to live in a farm in Ohio surrounded by everything she ever loved.
Here's an interesting article on the fact that many people, women especially, expect women in the spotlight like Kristen to constantly wear a smiley face... and why this is not "expected" of men.
I do understand the point of view of posters who don't like her, although no one on this site has bashed her like I've seen on other boards which in that case I feel jealously has something to do with it. I happen to like R&K together but I am Rob's fan so if they break up I will probably not follow her anymore. I think he could do a lot worse than Kristen. The next girl he dates may be an obnoxious famewhore who will let everyone know in no uncertain terms that Rob is hers. Is that what people want? If Rob ends up with someone like this I won't like it but I'll still be his fan.
Another thing is I give Kristen some leeway because she's only 20 and I shudder to remember how immature I was at 20. So she makes some mistakes in how she presents herself to the public. Big deal.
Do people really hate her out there? I find her annoying, but hate is a word I reserve for people who actually do damage to others. She does not fall in this category one bit. I guess this is the only place I visit so I don’t know what is going on at other places. And even though we are not all on the love Kristen boat in here, none of us are lunatics out for blood.
Do people really hate her because she is with RP? I see her completely independent from Robert, maybe because she might actually be more famous than he is? I don't know, but my opinion of her is not based on him at all. I actually like the way she handles her relationship and the fact that she keeps it private. As it should. I don't feel jealous of her because either way, Rob would never be with me. Ha ha. The ONE thing that MAY bother me about her relationship is that, according to gossip, he was with Nikki before her. And they were such great friends. If this is true… ouch.
I also don't necessarily want her to smile, I just want her to own it either way. If she is a bitch who hates her crazy ass fans, good. If she is ecstatic to be where she is, fine. But she can't act one way and say she feels the other way. She needs to... yeah, grow up. But there are plenty of 20 years olds that are much more mature. I don't cut people slack because of their age. I WANT her to act 20! Being 20 doesn't mean you should act like a sour 40 year old! Happy, enjoying the ride, enjoying the love, enjoying the perks… enjoying that she is young and the ride is only starting.
And just beacuse I have a problem... I need beard-Rob back! Ha ha. Some people may hate it, but I lurv me that facial hair on that man!
I have become quite partial to Steven R. McQueen lol. He's a human in the show haha. I not a big fan of the other two guys though. It makes me feel worse knowing he is a former disney star. I feel like a pedophile.
Yes, as sickening as it sounds people do hate Kristen. Ever been to Perez Hilton? just wait for the next R&K update its so sad. I mean I dislike her for reasons I have stated before, but my reasoning is not unfounded and I dont dislike her as much as I seem.. its more of an indifference to her. I cant explain it. anyways..
there are people who are reallly brutal to her and I feel bad when its just pure hate and jealousy. Doesnt matter. She has Rob and I have my cats lmaoo
Goz and lallieb...ITA about poor Kristen and the expressions on her face. I don't comment on this usually but she deserves more respect than she gets from so many people.
ShariG....While I always respect your very fine opinions, I have to go with lallieb on this one. It's just Rob's nature to smile more...and he doesn't do a whole lot when confronted with paps either. Kristen has one of those serious faces and has a different personality than Rob and I say she should stay true to herself.
@Jessegirl, thanks for your support. Long thread here and as always, brings out differing opinions about Kristen, but not as bad as in the past. People's POV's are coherent (Est-Rock?) and can be accepted if not always agreed with. @Stephislegit, do I sense you're softening your opinion of Ms Stewart a bit?? @Solas, as always, insightful and worth reading.
yea i guess lol. i never hated her. i just think a lot of what i say is misinterpreted. not going to lie. i will never like her, but i do sympathize with her and make the effort to "try". I'm just trying to be supportive of Rob and plus i've been too busy to get too involved which helps a lot lol. I just hate when people are brutal to her. As I said before. I am not as anti-kristen as people believe.
I would like to just comment on Robs t-shirt. wonder if hes a fan of REO speedwagon or if the shirt was a gift?Being that these pics were taken just after the taping with Oprah in chicago IL. I live 2 hrs south by champaign where REO got thier big start! so cool! I am big into music & would love to here more from Rob!BIG FAN! P.S. love reading everyones comments about Rob&Kris I say whatever makes them happy.
I know this is a dead thread, but what the hell...
The truth is, women are their own worst enemy. Always have been and always will be, for one simple reason...
We are in competition with one another.
The most negative comments you'll ever read about women, come from other women. We'll tear each other down in ways that we never would a man. And that's because were not in competition with men. Those we WANT!
And of course women will deny this until they're blue in the face.
But still...it will be the truth.
And you know who knows this truth most of all?
Men.
And they disrespect the hell out of us because of it. We will never be equal with men as long as we continue to behave like women...towards each other. NEVER!
Nik--I disagree. Some women act like that, but not all, and it is not something intrinsic to women, or natural to women; i think it is something sociological based on competition for 1-survival, by fighting for the guy who could provide the best cave, hunt the best mammoth, etc, and 2- for continuation of species, by competing for the guy who seemed to have the best genes to pass on (better looking, more fit, etc) and developed over time into competition for the guy who could provide the best financially (nice home, clothes, food) and provide the best genes to pass on (and body to have sex with). On the other hand, I have often said that if we want wars to stop, we need to have women leaders in the world, leaders who would nurture the chldren rather than send them out to fight, and would send the war-mongering men to bed without supper (or sex) etc untl they could behave better. What is intrinsic, built in, to women as female humans, is the ablity to nurture (our bodies are made to carry and bear life and feed it) even though not every woman can have a child and not every woman is a nurturer. I wish we could work toward letting the natural capacity (and need?)for nurturing wipe away the sociological need for competition.
Basically I am saying that women who are catty, cut-throat in their competition for a man, coveting what another woman has to the extent of wishing her harm, are stuck in the neanderthal stage, and it is more than high time to evolve.
Loisada... Whenever I've seen that LB on his cap, I've wondered if it meant Long Beach (and not because I live here). But what I haven't been able to figure out is, with all of the baseball caps he could be wearing, why one from Long Beach State? What? Is he planning on enrolling? LOL!
And Solas... You're right. I made a blanket statement. Not all women behave in such a manner; those who have matured and have figured just a little bit out of what life is really all about. But a whole hell of alot of women; the younger ones in particular, that are still in search of mates and partners in reproduction? They do.
And the pop cultural media plays this up. Always pitting women against each other. We always hear about 'cat fights' amoungst women. How come we don't hear about 'dog fights' so much amoungst men? Look in the celebrity and fashion magazines. It's women's bodies that are on display fueling the jealousy (and yes, they're starting to exploit the men too...but there's no jealousy there on women's part. only admiration and desire).
What really gets me is, they'll show two women in the same dress and have the public vote on who wore it the best? Competition! Do we do this to men? No, we don't.
And I stick by my opinion that men do disrepect women for the catty ways in which 'some' women treat each other. They do see it as WEAK. And unfortunately, it's the 'some' women behaving this way that seem to be getting all of the attention and therefore, this is what is forming the 'perception' of things. And that's because this is something they can 'sell' to us.
Nurturing, fair women do not sell us anything. In fact, in this modern world, if you're not out for number one, that is viewed as a negative. I'm not saying it's right. I'm saying this is the 'perception' of things.
And men really do hate this about women. I've talked to and interviewed enough on the subject to know. Because 'some' women (the woman in the spotlight) behave this way, it makes men feel superior to them. Because they see this behavior as infantile. And they're right. It is.
Just on this blog. Look at how Kristen is talked about. Everything about her is criticised; her hair, her clothes, her facial expressions, her awkwardness in public. But it look at Rob...
We cut him slack for his 'duster bum' look and call him 'hobolicious'. When his hair looks like it hasn't seen a comb in a week, we call it 'sex hair'. When he's shy and awkward and bumbling in public, it's seen as endearing. Nope.
You'll never convince me on this one. Women can be nasty, catty bitches to one another and it is because of the competition.
i agree they can be, but only if they do not grow beyond the neanderthal stage. As for men, sure we don't see cat or dog fghts usually,we just see them beating their women into submission or coming with guns at an ex and her new man. Again--only those who haven't grown beyond the neanderthal within. And you are right about the bodies on display, the objectifyng, now dribbled over to men, and hooted as if it is a good thing that men are finally objectified, rather than rising above it and choosing to not objectify ANYONE.
Rob smiles, Kristen does not. Everybody's different. We are not privy to the real deal. I know when I return home from a cross country flight the last thing I would want are cameras in my face.
I like to smile and people often comment on how nice my smile is. My husband does not. Guess what comments I hear about that! Is something wrong? Is he unhappy?
Can you imagine people with cameras following your evey move? People you don't even know make comments about how you dress, your facial expressions and what you say. Would you like it?
Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Unfortunately some girls/women can be catty and a lot of the negative comments towards Kristen are a result of jealousy. But they are entitled to their opinion, that's what free speech is all about. I do draw the line when it gets rude.
This site is a wonderful place because of the many witty and intelligent women who share their thoughts about all things Rob.That is why I keep coming back.
Loisada- thanks for the info on the cap. I live in my own small world & because i have kids the L B could have been for london bridges for all i knew thanks again!
I was just thinking about all that has been blogged here. And now i have to put my 2 cents in. Somewhere in the short past I did read something about Rob& Kristen making bets on who can stay off thier own websites the longest. so this tells me that they do read what we write. &if I were Rob it would piss me off if people (fans)were making not so nice comments about my girlfriend! or close friend whichever. I'm not saying not to have some fun with the pic's that we get to see,but we need to stay respectful to both or we may just lose his smile as well! And that would be a sad,sad day! Because we all love Rob's smile don't we? But who knows maybe they read these & just laugh. I'm not trying to be mean here, JUST HONEST !!!!
Nik: I don't get it either, but it's def an LB State cap. For a while I wondered if K's brothers Cameron or Taylor were going there, but I vaguely recall reading somewhere that Rob actually bought the cap in Japan@# Go figure.... Are you anywhere near Belmont Shores?
Women being catty? C'est pas vrai ! Yes, it's ingrained in the culture and in women's bodies and minds. It starts in middle school when the hormones go wild and girls start vying for masculine attention (just ask my daughter how many "cat fights" there have been at school this spring alone, and what sparked them! 99% of the time it was a boy they both liked.).
Some women never seem to grow out of it. Women lacking a sense of self-worth that is not based on physical appeal to men often feel they need to tear down the "competition," with the main focus on their "attractiveness" quotient.
I think it's true as Nik says that men find this ridiculous, all the more so as they don't use the same "appeal" standards as women and so often don't even find the same women attractive as we women do. Women are the ones that buy into the outrageous beauty standards first! Rob has called Kristen "breathtakingly beautiful." He's got a right to his opinion, doesn't he? And if we're true Rob fans, I think we can grant him the last word on the subject.
trex, it makes me sad to think of Kristen reading all the awful catty things said about her, especially on other websites.. I suppose it's human nature to want to check but that has to be painfully hard to take. I don't know what people expect - for her to smile sweetly at the paps? I have seen her smile with the fans.
And I agree with Loisada. Some women never grow out of cattiness. My workplace has some 40 year-old bitchy women. People do not find that attractive!
Loisada--I don't know if you will see ths, but I just saw your comment and felt compelled to respond. The cattiness, especially of adolescent girls that you describe, is not only NOT ingrained, not a necessary part of hormones, and is not even from the neanderthal inheritance, but rather is cultural. This nonsense (and beyond nonsense, destructive dangerous shyte) going on now did not go on anything like this in previous generations, and does not go on in girl-only highschools. Somethign wicked this way has come in societies, that all of this destructive, deadly shyte is hitting the whirly blades.
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My next vacation in the USA ... a tour of every airport ... camping there ... no so expensive and maybe a good way to see them passing by.... Going to reserve a (naughty) corner ... now!
Ah, love smiling Rob! Guess it's back to the grindstone! Still wish Oprah hadn't gone THERE yesterday-but R&K handled it.
FILTM!!!
Hi jc!
yep! back to the grindstone in LA LA land.
Happy Rob makes me happy!
FILTM!!!
cricrilĂ count me in!!!!
woooo that tongue i'm dribbling/drooling like Homer Simpson thinking in a doughnut ;)
I have two issues here:
The Tongue!!! oh my gosh, I want to suck and lick that tonge!!! Jesus!!! He is sooo handsome...
and Kristen!!! you are a Lucky Lucky bitch(bitch in a good way,ok? I like you! because you make our BB smiles grew A LOT!!!)
that's IT for now!! *sigh*
jc ITA about the Oprah thing. I already told here that i wish Oprah didn't ask THAT but...R&K are very intelligent
He is always all smilie when she is around, visible or no visible.He looks happy and ....proud.
I didn't got to the tongue because I have to work.
I love Rob and his tongue! I'd like to taste it.
Love a happy Rob. Love Rob and Kristien.
Love that they make each other happy. She is
so very lucky.
Now about the tongue...I want it!
i love Rob!
@jc(kyfilly)
agreed
Free the hair babe for my sake.
I can go to the hair issue because it's less distractive, if you know what I mean.
Yay we have a happy smiling Rob, god he looks so sweet when Kris is around, i think he has a really deep crush on her ;)
she handles it more like an adult, but he just looks like a teenie girl ;)
ROBSTEN, i love looking at you two toghether, thx for making my day...
@dina
haha. i want a peak of hair too! a lil wispy please..
i notice kstew hair grows longer...she looks really cool!
Why can she not smile? I really try to like her but her face is allways so sour. Smile, Rob is next to you!!!!!!
@Andrea, please try to find and read her interviews for Elle and this other mag I don't remember the name. If you visit any twilight site they have both interviews there. You will heart the girl after reading these. Please go read them before you judge her so hard.
Andrea, maybe she doesn't smile because she knows there are paps and doesn't feel comfortable with them taking pics. That has nothing to do with the fact that she may be very happy for being next to Rob. She can be very happy, but not smilie in that very minute.
Or maybe that's her presonality. Every person is different. Like a spanish song says "don't think i'm sad if you don't see me smile...ways of driving yourself through life" oooh and even with the translation, that rhymes in english! yuju!
@dina i read the interview and ITA with you, very sad when she confesses that sometimes she has to keep herself from crying...
@Noe Aloha, I know right? The hair Oh the hair.
Dear Dina, I have made an observation about her. I was not nasty and deffinately not hard!! I will not go and read any of her interviews as I am not her fan - I have commented on her face which allways looks to me like she hates every minute of her HARD life! I am on this website because I am Rob's fan.
@Est-Rock Ola Est-Rock, I loved this quotes from the song so true, so true.
ITA andrea. smile u are with Rob F***ing Pattinson!!!
the tongue is so yummy!!!wonder how gud he is in tongue cherry stem knot *giggles
@Andrea it's not right to judge a book by the cover but this is just my opinion. Whatever suits you right.
@ Andrea, it's ok, your free to coment but, if you say you don't go to read the interview about kris because you're not her fan, only rob fan, then why are you comenting about her? i mean, if you don't like her face, ok but be coherent with your ideas: you're not her fan, you don't read about her, maybe you shouldn't coment about her, am i wrong? just my opinion, obviuosly your free to coment like i already said. i just think it's very important being coherent
@Dina @Est-Rock--Waving hello.
ITA with both of you. People will never be happy until she is doing what they think she should do. It's ridiculous.
Anyway, since this is a blog about Rob, let's focus on him. He keeps carrying his guitar through airports, is he creating new music. Will we get some songs on Eclipse, WFE or BD? I hope so!
@ dina ooohhh you're so cute saying "ola" ajajaja
that's an old rock song quite famous here (yeah, it's rock you know me and yeah, it's an old song, it's from 1981 and i was born in 1989 ;) i love the lyrics
Dear Est-rock, I understand what you are saying. But unfortunatelly she is on the same photo like Rob so I have made a comment about her face on these pictures.
Hi CL I know what you mean but...
girls girls I have to go work, I have to go work, I am running late. Love you all, chat maybe tonight.
I don't smile when I'm walking through an airport so why should K? Anyway, who cares. I'd rather look at Rob and his tongue.
I've notice R/K chased by papz since NM's shoot. After all speculation between piggy-ride and Sam's Concert,K's smile all gone.
Papz very rude, they're ask some rude question like "ru sleeping w/ him? ru married? ru cheating?"
Yeah I really want K smile when with Rob(just like Rob does, he cant hide his happiness), but really understand why she chose not smile and using her earphones.
I'am not her fan, but Iam understand her.
Happy Rob make me Happy...
and Happy Rob seem when he w/ Kstew
@ CL i think most of people don't usually read my coments and i understand it because i don't contribute nothing to the blog (i'm not very imaginative, and my english...well) but if you have read some coments of mine, you will see that i never (or almost never) coment on Kris (just in cases like this). But i don't know why the people who says this is only a rob site (i agree) and they're only rob fans, not kris, are the same people who sometimes brins kris up. i can't understand nothing (i understand they're in the same pic though)
Anyway, i hope he is creating music but i hope even more i could hear him live one day!
Est-Rock, the people who claim to hate Kristen are the very ones who bring her up time and again.
I just saw pics of Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel and neither one is smiling at the paps. Why do people get on K's back because she doesn't?
Hiii !
Stupid paps.
Awww Smilley boy and his lady !
Very cute.
@jmm4832 (i've had to repeat yor nam in my head in order to remember it! ;)
you're absolutely right. But let's better stop talking about it :)
Rob, play a song for me! ajajaja
Believe me people talk about Biel not smiling ALL the time. And yes, she doesn't smile, there's nothing wrong with expressing one's opinion. It doesn't mean people hate Kristen, it means they are commenting just like you. You love seeing Rob and Kristen together you think she makes him happy etc. Someone else may have a different idea, they might even not like Kristen.
You don't need to be someone's fan to comment.
Just my 2 cents. Please don't be hard on people for just expressing their opinion. Not everybody has to like Kristen, not everybody has to like Rob either...
puff forgive my english pleas, i'm typing very quick because i'm at work!
There is just no pleasing some people no matter what...
Happy Rob makes me happy!
I certainly hope Rob is making music. Wouldn't that just be amazing?!?
FILTM!
Kristen clearly hates the papz.
I don't think she wants to give them anything to feed off of including a smile. I don't blame her, they are animals.
Rob looks happy. I am sure we will see his smile disappear soon, now that he is in LA.
I love how Rob and Kristen keep their private lives private. I imagine it's a full time job. Both Rob and Kristen are amazing. the way they are handling all of this is impressive.
Smily Rob's always fun to see, but he doesn't ONLY smile when Kristen is around..he smiles alot when he is home in London too. I guess he's just in a happy mood lately lol. GOOD for him. He may also look fwd to work with Elephants soon lol.
I haven't read the Kristen interviews but she clearly is NOT keen on paps. She has every right not to smile at these paps. However I have seen her smily face in person and she really seems like an adorable but very shy and private girl. She didn't start in this biz to be a big mega movie star, but surely it doesn't hurt workwise for her of course. She is in the biz cos she loves acting. The creative part of it..the rest she just deals with her own way.
Smiley Rob makes me smile. Damn he looks good...
Morning everyone..
Hi Gozde! Miss ya
Love your comments, Goz and rpg...
my thoughts exactly.
(good morning!).
It's good to see them happy. For whatever reason it may be.
Check out the pics they are both in. He's looking out the window. Out the window. Annnd Oh look there arse !! He's watching her walk. CUTE !
If I was K. I wouldn't smile too... I would bark like a dog defending my territory!!! Bau! Bau! Bau! (sound of a dog in italian!)
But I would also wave my tail and put out a long tongue ....
Actually this is what I do in front of each Rob's image ...
I hope some leg hitching is in order for R&K.
Good morning to NBs everywhere.
Smiling Rob - what better way to begin a Thursday. Whatever it is that the beautiful Kristen does to Rob that makes him smile gifts us with these pictures.
The power of his smile is a panty poofing good thing.
Gozde nice to hear you again!
i'mma explain myself.
I agree with you you don't have to be afan to comment, that's why I didn't say "you don't comment about Kris", but i said "obviously you're free to comment" (you can read it above). In fact, i answar saying some reasons she has that face. And i think i haven't been hard, but if it it sounded like i was, i'm sorry.
Like i said too, i don't comment on R&K post or, when i do it, i just talk about Rob. But i respect people who talk about them or her. I was just meaning that we have to be coherent, if you say you're only a rob fan and this is a blog only about rob, is it coherent that you talk about Kris? i mean, of course you're free to do it, it's your opinion, but maybe you're not being coherent.
In conclusion
My own opinion: R&K relationship none of my business (like i said on a thread a few weeks ago)
Now:
you want to comment about her face, ok
you don't want to, ok
you are only a rob fan, ok
you are only a kris fan, ok
you are a robsten fan, ok
you are a Bobsponge fan, ok (i am!)
you are a Santa Claus fan, ok
but please, coherence
BTW, why the fuck i'm talking about this if i said i don't comment on this? maybe i'm starting to be incoherent..so i'll shut the fuck up
(love doing self-criticism exercices)
I just enlarged the picture with both Rob and the guy behind Kristen "observing" her walk. She looks not only beautiful with the longer hair, but sexy as hell.
I don't give a rat's ass whether you're a "fan" of Kristen's or not, the fact that Rob kind of seems to like her, makes me at least cut her slack and give her some respect. I do resent snap judging her based on her facial expression when confronted with an army of flashing paparazzi cameras, invading her personal space, hooting and hollering out her name saying God knows what to get her attention every damn time she gets on or off an airplane!! Unless one is a total famewhore, this gets old really quick. Not only would I not be smiling, I'd be screaming or retreating into my own little world with earbuds firmly in place to shut out the mayhem.
Some thoughts on love and art and Kristen and Rob...
Back at the beginning Kristen was quoted as saying 'Rob can't lie'. Methinks this was early love projection. We see ourselves in others especially those that we love. In fact Rob 'lies' all the time although I prefer to think of it as creative thinking. I don't mean he's insincere. Far from it. I mean that he intuitively protects himself with words, deflects a probing question with generalities or the first damn thing that comes into his pretty head. He never fully reveals himself in interviews, not the inner core of himself. I think he saves that for his work.
Kristen on the other hand is about as raw and vulnerable and exposed in interviews as you can get. She tries to be honest, answer the question, be true to herself. She doesn't have that protective layer. She might grow into it, learn how to protect herself. She might not.
I'm older than Kristen. Muuuch older. I'm an artist. Emotional responses go straight from my brain to my hands and bypass my mouth completely. In public I'm shy to the point of muteness. At best I come across as cold and remote and at worst as a social nitwit. There's nothing I can do about this, you can't have everything. My work is more revealing than anything I could say about myself to anybody, except a few close people. So I can relate to Kristen. And I don't give a flying fuck if she can't say her own name to some celebrity parasite or Rob tells me he sleeps standing on one leg with all the lights on. They're actors, they work hard, they're pouring themselves into it. They're revealing their truest selves to us in their work. And as has been said here many times before they don't owe us a thing other than that.
@Est-Rock, I hope that was coherent enough?
Shouldn't be posting now as I'm at work, but can't help myself. I do agree with you about "coherence" in one's point of view when commenting.
Am i the only one seeing one picture of him smiling and its one where Kristen is not in the picture? Everyone puts so much emphasis on when they are together and what he looks like and what he is doing....i see nothing different to if he was walking with Taylor or another co-star.
*shrugs*
I have come to hate seeing Robert and Kristen through paparazzi eyes, which is why i don't buy anymore magazines. I haven't bought one since the new year.
Does anyone know what he is doing now? Has he finished with Bel Ami?
Awww he is smilier when she is with him. I love that.
@Cerulean, spot on description of Rob and Kristen's style of communicating in interviews. Brilliant and so very true, all of it.
Just one more comment on these pictures. Why does Kristen look so pissy? I know she is sick of the paparazzi, but they are a fact of life for them at least until the saga is complete. Smile once in awhile. Take a cue from Rob. I love her and more than anything I love them, but she could try not to look so surly so much of the time.
does he not know what that tongue does to us??
@ShariG, see my comment above. The paparazzi are more than a nuisance, they're verbally abusive, can cause accidents, and will do or say anything to get a money shot. Both R&K despise this attention, whether it comes with the territory they've chosen to tread or not. They did not invite it into their personal lives, smiling or responding in any way only encourages it.
I'm outta here...
I've said before that I've seen her in person at one of the talk shows she did last year. She was very nervous and VERY shy. You can tell the attention makes her uneasy and nervous. She's not being a bitch at all. Remember, she is young and all this is hard to handle...the paps and all. Rob seems like he's getting better at handling it. He's a bit older too.
@cerulean: like your thoughts but I thought when Kristen was talking about "lying" she meant more in relation to acting - that Rob can't help but give a truthful response as a person when acting. At least, that's the context I was applying. It meshed with something Paul Morrison had said as well.
@ lallieb
i was at work too! so i had to hide myself ajajaja i'm happy you agree with me...that's not very common ajajaj ;)
Yeah Kristen looks mad but she just stepped off the airplane and the pappz are there waiting...i would be mad too. But Rob looks great and the tongue YIKES :0
So much to catch up on this morning and plus i actually have work to do this morning :( but seeing these pics of rob make it all the better.
@cerulean blue - nice observations. I agree.
Bottom line - Happy Rob = happy me.
Just enjoy The Pretty and I look forward to all his work. Thanks Rob.
Smiling/Not Smiling
Together/Not Together
Love KStew/Hate KStew
Love Rob/Love Rob :)
No matter the opinion, yes we all have a right to express them. Mature, respectful comments of ALL opinions is what makes this world the place it SHOULD be.
It's when the comments get rude, disrespectful, and vicious that makes me not want to even read through the comments or post one of my own.
It has been pleasant around here for a little while now, and I would like to say how much I appreciate mature and reasonable expressions of opinions.
This is a happy place for all! Love you guys!!!
@Gozde Great to hear from you!
@cricrila
LMAO! I would freaking bark like a dog to protect my territory too! Especially if that territory were ROBERT FUCKING PATTINSON!!
It seems to me, when I see airport photos of them just landing, they are saying or thinking-- the vultures are already here and waiting, and it wipes the smiles they mght have had after enjoyng each other's company.
I find it interesting that when we see photos of ROb getting off a plane and he looks distressed, even as if he has been crying or at the verge of tears, everyone can understand, explain that he is tired, just got off a plane, cannot stand the pappz who are waiting to spring upon himself, or that he is overworked, stressed out, etc, yet when seeing Kristen not cheery and smiley-faced, have a totally different way of looking at her and her situation. We have seen so many clips of her laughing, enjoying Rob, enjoying friends, enjoying life, enjoying interviews, that we know she can and does smile and appears to absolutely adore Rob; we have heard herself say she is scared and overwhelmed sometimes and we see Rob very protective her, running interference at his own risk of exposure so she can get away safely; we have heard some clips of the pappz shouting such disgraceful and personal 'remarks' and challenges that we ought to understand why the BOTH of them are usually stiff and dour when faced with the gauntelet of pappz.
It is almost heartbreaking to me not only that they have to deal with all of that, when they are both shy, quiet people who have made it clear they appreciate the fans but not the stalking intrusion and rudeness, that they don't want to give them anythng--certainly not a smiling photo--but that they also have to deal with 'fans' who resent her presence with him (she gets some terrible remarks on boards, postings, and mail; I believe she has received threats), that these 'fans' cannot give the same benefit of the doubt, and searching for reasons for serous or glum faces, that they give to ROb.
@AP You might be right. I'm not sure of the context of the remark.
Oh! Forgot to add...
The tongue.....YUMMY! :P
FILTM!!!
FILSFHR!!!!!
NBU!!!!
He does that with his tongue to kill us, I swear he does it on purpose. THUD
Now they finally look like they are together. Rob always looks so happy when he is with Kris and she looks worn out, if you know what I mean. I like them as a couple for they are so much alike and they intend to keep their personal lives just that, personal and private. Can't wait to see Oprah's show next week. Hope Kris is planning a big birthday for Rob.
I love this happy sexy couple. I like to think that Rob is licking his lips because he is looking at her a$$ and then he noticed the dude next to him doing the same thing and was like WTF dude!
All in all, all I can say is Kristen is kicking a$$ and taking numbers in these pics. This comes to mind...
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d.html/ref=redir_mdp_mobile/185-4527995-0744068?redirect=true&tag=reelsoundtrac-20&linkCode=as2&a=B00136PUP0&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B00136PUP0
i have to say this, Kstew is very sexy in this photo, look at that hips, awww! most of her outfits are so cool, none of the hollywood fashionistas style,thats why Rob also like her, she is just being true to herself.they both look good together and i wish them all the best, whatever relationship they have.I think Kstew is more mature than her age, Rob says that too in one of his interview.they always wore matching outfit and its kind of sweet,in my opinion, though..sometimes when you really like a person you kind of copy whatever he does, i guess...anyway, Rob is still hot just like what everybody else have said, HAPPY ROB HAPPY ME. now i can go to sleep..night Rob
I like how both Rob AND the security dude seem to be checking out her a** in the last photo!
i just have to say one thing even though i think kristen is a cutie i just keep wondering why has she not done something about her hair color?
wow.......Sexy Rob
He looks great , love to see him Happy.
Most of you blame people who don't like Kristen. What i don't like, it's you dream up such things as when he went to Vancouver to shot eclipse where supposedly she was "Oh, He's smiling, looks SO happy, our boy had HOT night with K!" Then it turns out she's not in Vancouver. she's in NY Costume Gala. It's ridiculous! As you can think and say so, why others can't be negative about her. And ROB, he's mostly smiling, with or without her and not because of her. I love him!!! I don't like her.
Solas, I agree with everything you said. I'm sure that if Rob were dating a different woman there would be petty remarks made about her as well. Now I know some people say they would dislike K even if she wasn't with Rob, but by and large the majority of the criticism would wane if they weren't together. It makes me ashamed of women to read the petty stuff on other boards. Really, Rob doesn't care what people think of his dating choices!
I have always thought that death threats is one of the reasons why R&K don't verbally confirm they are together. Although really one doesn't need a verbal confirmation to figure this one out.
He just loves showing us that tongue, that teasing little sh*t! But since it's accompanied by that damn smile, he can tease all he wants;)
People in THIS fandom rag on Kristen Stewart for one reason and one reason only and that reason is...
Robert Pattinson is in love with her.
Period.
If he were in love with Camille Belle or Ashley Greene or you or me...then those girls or you or me would be the targets. Even if we smiled all damn day long. They'd find something else to pick out and criticise.
It' called 'irrational' jealousy whether they recognize it or not. They probably don't. They just tell themselves...'I just don't like her.'
balbe333...
When he arrived, she was still there, but she did leave before him. And after a two week seperation from each other, we were JOKING about them getting back together again.
That's...joking.
Nik, it blows my mind that there's an entire website (nonsten) that's devoted to tearing Kristen down. Really, don't you people have better things to do with your time?
And joking is alot different than criticizing. Let me ask a question...
Would you rather Rob read the comments here where were kidding about them OR the comments where the girl he loves is put down?
How many of you would dare say the things you say behind the safety of your computer screen, to that girl's face? I doubt none.
I think people do like Kristen. But people do not like when she always looks so pissed when she is with Rob .. Whether they are a couple, but no one knows.!?! Any woman who is together with Rob, no matter if only as a friend or lover must shine like the sun. LOL
Seriously LOL
All I can see is. Rob and his tongue is so damn hot.
Rob,
watch your tongue. It will kill us.
And I love it when he is not shaved
FILTM!!!WOWK
Just read your post Solas and you nailed it. Perfect.
And all of this 'over the top' jealousy where he is concerned, I would imagine is what has, in the past, caused this girl to use words like 'psychotic' to describe the fanbase and 'covet' when describing their desire for him.
She's absolutely right.
cerulean blue...
Great comment.
I always thought that when Kristen said that 'Rob can't lie' she was referring to a couple of things; his work (he can't fake it) and his feelings.
As for the bullshit of celebrity (interviews, sound bites), oh hell yeah, he can lie all damn day long. Or just make up shit for our entertainment and his own.
But I really do think she was referring to the things that matter.
Just a guess.
You know what? Sometimes when my fungirling leaves me alone and I go back to 45 mature woman mother of three, I really like for all women's sake that instead of her acting like WOW I date Robert Fucking Pattison he is like WOW I date Kristen Fucking Stewart.
*thinks back to the last time we saw Rob walking through LAX*
*stares at Rob's relaxed/smiling face in these pics*
*asks self what's different between the two*
Yep, relaxed/smiling Rob is ALWAYS better.
@dina~
I so love you right now. THAT is one of the reasons I so love this man.
@Jazz me too, me too.
Oh, the bodyguard want not to be detected, too. Sunglasses. Black.
Rob and a pen for autographs has been ready. Sorry Rob. I could not be there.
I love how Rob is looking sideways at the (what I assume is) bodyguard, that is staring at Kristens ass! lolz
nikola6
Just calm down. Everything is joke. And only their love is real. You so believe it, just make me smile.
OK so love the pics of him smiling. I think we all need to sit back and relax.
Kstew is not going to give the Paps a smile, and thats ok. They get paid to get a reaction out of her and she's not going to play that game. Go Kstew.
Robsten/Nonsten whatever I just like that he is safely on the ground.
Dina: ..... Amen! Why shouldn't he be singing the Hallelujah chorus himself?!
Cerulean: very insightful. I think Rob's verbal diarrhea is often misunderstood as a big gush of uncontrolled "truths." I see him as spinning tales to partially reveal himself while "cryptically" keeping much of his inner self hidden protectively away. He may be very genuine, but he is not naive and has formed his own special self-protective shell that is only reinforced by his "spouting." Kris appears to be another story. She doesn't do tall tales well, as you say she's still very raw and hence more vulnerable, which makes the protective snarl all the more necessary. I, for one, get that, and don't want a megawatt smile.
I'm kinda new here-- well, I've been reading this blog for the past year, but never posted-- so, I'm an obsessed lurker :)
I'm totally excited to see them walking the airport together as a couple (pro-Robsten). At the defense of Kris, she's said in previous interviews that she doesn't want to give the "fiending"--the wonderful annoying paps ANYTHING. I've recently read her Elle and Flaunt interviews and I'm deeply saddened that she is assaulted in such a maddening way. I couldn't even comprehend that feeling! She's young and learning how to deal with being famous and she doesn't want to be like the others-- it's her being different that is attracting such attention to her. I must admit I think that different is good. She's not a typical HW star, nor is Rob.
As to their relationship, there is probably plenty of reason why they don't just come out and admit they are together-- and why should they?!? (albeit, I'd love to hear it myself, but their actions towards one another speak volumes)
With regard to leaving Kristen out of the picture in a Rob blog, I don't think that's possible seeing that those two are affiliated in everything since they started Twilight. Plus, I believe I once read either at this blog or another that a blog dedicated to Rob includes everything that is important to him-- and it's completely obvious that Kris is.
Just my two cents...
By the way, I love this blog and the responses!
I don't think Kristen looks pissed when she is with Rob, as WE DON'T KNOW WHAT SHE LOOKS LIKE WHEN SHE IS REALLY WITH HIM!!!!! We only know what she looks like when they are intruded upon and snapped!
And most of Rob's facial expressions are serious or distressed or glum or downright pissed when he is hunted and pappzed; he smiles for fans. If Kristen were photographed as much as Rob, it could very well be the amount of smiles and serious expressons would be equivalent, and if she were photographed by fans without fear of being threatened, she would be smiling as well.
I don't come here to burst someone's bubbles. I just want to express myself as a Robsessed fan. This is the first time I am seeing Rob's photos since he got back from VANCOUVER. After he stayed in UK for more than two weeks alone w/ his family I am looking at the new Rob. He is more subdued, barely smiling but seems in control of himself and his situation. He has grown mature after all he's turning 24 this month.
I don't come here to burst someone's bubbles. I just want to express myself as a Robsessed fan. This is the first time I am seeing Rob's photos since he got back from VANCOUVER. After he stayed in UK for more than two weeks alone w/ his family I am looking at the new Rob. He is more subdued, barely smiling but seems in control of himself and his situation. He has grown mature after all he's turning 24 this month.
BTW--the fact that Rob is holding a pen or marker in the photos where he is smiling, tells me that he is dealing wtih a fan (or fans) for that one; he does smile for the fans, just not the pappz. The pappz got that photo not because he wanted to give them a smile, but becasue in spite of them he was smiling for fans.
And that guy really DOES look like he is looking at Kristen's bum! And Rob does seem to be looking at him looking at her, with raised brows as if to say-- Hey-- are you lookng at my girlfriend's bum???
balbee333...
I am extremely calm. No anger or upset in my posts at all. Just observations. Now if I run out of reeces peanut butter cups?...Oh my. Then the shit will fly.
And Jenny...
Welcome. And I think (just me, just what I think) that part of the reason why they're keeping mum about this aspect of their lives is because...so much of their lives are already exposed. They've had to give it all up for this franchise; their freedom, their privacy and their anynimoty (I'll never spell that word right). Must they give up their love affair too? Can't they keep just this to themselves? Well. They're giving it the old college try. But it's only a matter of time before someone gets the 'money shot.' ABSOLUTE confirmation. And then all of this shit will really kick in?
"They're secretly married"
"She's pregnant"
Blah. Blah. Blah.
And of course those who will not believe, even a confirming money shot will not convince them.
"Oh, that pic is photoshopped."
And Dina...
I think you hit the nail on the head. I don't think he can believe that she's actually his. I think he thinks he hit the jackpot with Kristen Stewart.
You just keep on thinking that boy.
You'll be the happier man for it.
And yes, this is a Rob site...
But how can we have discussions about Rob without the conversations sometimes involving Kristen? She's a part of his life now, both professionally and personally. If they break up and he gets a new squeeze, we'll talk about her too.
Hel. If he walked around in public with a toy poodle named Howard, we'd be talking about...Howard too.
Were talking about his work and his life here and she's part of both.
Sorry 'bout that.
OK... if we're really going there...
I get the feeling that if Rob were asked what his Twilight fame brought him that he was the most grateful for, he would say something like this:
3) it got me off my arse & doing something fulfilling and rewarding that's given me the power to experiment with artistic endeavours and support others' projects,
2) my success has helped spur the careers of my best buds whose music careers are starting to really bloom thanks to all this crazy fame, and
1) I got to work with, learn from, woe and actually win the fierce woman of my fantasies, and she's even better than in my dreams.
I think he's a damn grateful and happy man right now, as he well should be!
@gözde totally agree with you girl there is no need to be hard on people because of their opinion everyone should respect each other
I do like the fact so much, that Kristen wears his clothes so often.
The hoodie she´s sporting is Robs.
And I can relate to that very much. To smell the scent of the one you love makes you feel secure.
Here's a video of them in the LAX.
http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2010/05/video-robert-pattinson-k risten-stewart-arrive-lax
im surprised that kristen hasnt thrown elbows yet. I would have been fighting some paps if they were waiting for me outside an airplane. Im glad she's staying composed but i might go crazy.
and another thing, why is it that people are so caught up on her smiling. do you smile all the time, everyday cause i sure dont. i dont even think i smile unless im laughing.
i get you kristen.
Welcome, Jenny. Yes, you read it here that a blog about Rob should encompass all that is important to him, in so many words. I was the one who wrote it, although not necessarily the only one. Nik has just reiterated that opinion and also, made a good point that Kristen is both professionally AND personally linked to Rob, ergo she will be mentioned...often. The good news is that the people who would have absolute shit fits everytime her name came up here and start fights, seem to have given up and gone elsewhere.
@Gozde, excuse me, "not everybody has to like Rob, either." I would suggest that anyone who comes to ROBsessed and wants to put their 2 cents in, damn well better "like" Rob Pattinson. Otherwise, I believe it's called "trolling"??
@Solas, Losida, Nik, Dina, cerulean and Jenny (welcome)
All you ladies ROCK, and (aside from the obvious....Rob)are the reason I'm still here 1 year later. I love to hear your insight on all things and in regards to this paticular subject you ALL are RIGHT ON!!!
IMO its been pretty amazing to watch this relationship unfold right before our eyes, and I respect them both for their commitment to one another on keeping their personal lives as private as they can possibly keep it.
Kudos to you Rob and Kris!!!!
@dina...lmao on your comment "when the fangurl leaves me alone, and I return to a 45 yr old mature mother of 3, I like the fact that instead of WOW I'm dating Robert Fucking Pattinson and instead it's like WOW I'm dating Kristin Fucking Stewart"
How many times have I said the very same thing!!!!
And on that note this 45 yr old fangurl must leave this site NOW so she won't be late to work! (see what you guys do to me...LOL)
@Solas: :DD I think he'd actually just be getting an eyeful of the backpack. However, it is a..er...bum he's paid to protect so I guess he has a right to 'watch' it...lol
Wow, 111 comments.
When Angie-K and I were in NY for Robstock I, we saw Kristen. She stopped right in front of us at the RM premiere, signed autographs and even had her picture taken with Angie. She was nothing but gracious, sweet and kind. She also SMILED. She is terrific with the fans, it's the rats with cameras that she doesn't like.
I just went back and looked at the pictures again and I am LMAO! The picture where Rob has his head turned and tongue out, really does seem to lead one to believe he is totally checking her butt out. Despite the craziness, the ugliness and the invasion into their PERSONAL lives, they are still just a normal couple. It's awesome.
@Jenny--welcome.
Thanks for the warm welcome ladies :) It seems that this past year I've lived and breathed Twilight with a special emphasis on Rob and Kristen. I've never been so "addicted" or interested in the chemistry between any actors/actresses in HW. Can't wait for Eclipse!
So Kris doesnt grin like the cheshire cat when she walks thru an airport!! so fucking what - she definately just adopts the 'look forward, keep walking in a straight line 'til I get where I'm going' and gives nothing away. How could Oprah even ask such a personal question ?? THEY ARE NEVER GOING TO ADMIT they are together!!! surely this is obvious now!! like Kris said the questions would just move on to be more intrusive so private is going to stay private! I think Kris is great , talented and a real individual ! good luck to them both - Kris is one lucky girl and Rob a lucky boy - anyone who says they are a Rob fan then slags off his girlfriend is not a real Rob fan and should think about how offensive they must be to Rob .
OK, I've had enough.
@lallieb-WATCH UR FUCKIN MOUTH~!!!
Kember - had enought of what???
i thought you were banned from here for trolling before. If you dont like what people have to say, there is a red X at the top right corner of the screen to close the window.
Hope you have a good day, peace & love.
WELL said Ana!
And yeah CL...
When Kristen's name comes into the conversation, that conversation tends to take off; in the negative (those who can't stand the idea of him with her or with anybody else come to think of it) and those in the positive (that are happy for him no matter who he loves).
I can't tell you how many times I've heard that when Kristen's name comes up in conversation (from those around town who've worked with her or have had encounters with her), that she is described as 'sweet.' I've heard that word applied to her over and over. And this is from people 'in the know.' And I'll trust people in the know as oppose to those yammering away on the internet who don't know much of what it is they're talking about in the first place. Even Rob has used that word to describe her and I figure if anyone would know (living together when they see each other at their worst; morning breath, yanking smelling socks off of their feet, needing a shower, running to the toliet at both ends, when she's PMSing, when he's having a panic attack and melting down because of all of THIS and don't think he doesn't, but it's all behind closed doors)...it would be him.
And hey John...
Another boy. Oooh. I wikes me some boys. They're so cute. And yeah, I'm surprised neither one has thrown an elbow yet. They're handling this with such grace. Better than I would. Although I've thought for some time now, if she ever gets hurt in a crush of photogs (and I think people forget just how tiny she is), I think we could see boyfriend get a little tough with them. Oh just once. Wouldn't you like to see him clock one of them? And then of course they'd bring him up on assault charges and haul his ass into court. And he knows it. It's actually what they want. One of them would gladly take a punch if it could cause a scandal. But anyway (rambling here. yeah. they know)
Like you said...I get Kristen too.
And just for the record...
I'm damn grateful to her. If Rob were still walking around carrying a torch for an unrequited love, I wonder how different he might be today? Imagine if he knew that she cared just as much as he did, but she opted to not get involved with him because of the fame, the scrutiny and the threats that have come her way (and yes, they have BOTH been threatened and that's not speculation. That's a FACT). Imagine if she'd passed and he had to face the fact that he lost his chance with her because of something as meaningless as fame? That's the kind of thing that could haunt a person for a very long time. You'd always wonder, 'what if.' What if we'd just met under normal circumstances? What if? But fortunately, that's not what happened. She took a chance and I do believe his life is the better for it. So yeah, I'm grateful to Kristen. She apparently makes him happy and with all that's happened in his life, all that's been taken away from him, at least he found this girl in all of that madness.
And so I'd say...he's way ahead of the game. If you get to be with the person you love, then handling the shit lives throws at you has got to be easier to deal with. Like I said, imagine how things would be for him right now, if he never got his chance with her?
Pretty sad boy, if you ask me.
And Kember...
We've had enough of your PERSONAL attacks on people. Say what you want to say (and you can think that were all nuts and you're just above it all), but stop going after 'specific' people in such a nasty way.
I mean, I guess you can keep on doing it. Your keyboard. Your opinons. But it's not going to get you anywhere. So what is the percentage in doing it over and over? What are you getting out of this? Putting silly fangirls in their place? Okay. Thank you. Were in our place.
You can be so damn funny and full of fun. Some of your comments have had me on the floor. I even tried to reach out to you after you came after me. I wrote you that silly Here Comes Robbie's Claus. And it worked for awhile. You were nice, but then...you went off again and here I am doing what I said I never would...responding to you.
It's just that I think there's a funny, intelligent person in there who could add so much to the fun around here, but then...it goes skewampus and you're back to throwing daggers.
And I don't know why I care. But I do. Something about you has struck a chord in me. I want you to come here and have fun with all of us and yeah, when we get over the top silly, sure, go ahead and mock a little. That's okay. But you can just get so visious and most of all personal. Why? Why does it have to be this way? Were not doing anything important here Kember, were just playing.
I think that you could be one of the best contributors on this blog. But you've blown it to which I would assume you'd respond with...'I don't care' (as you've said this before). But if you don't care, why are you here? I mean, why spend a single moment of your life commenting about an actor and the fans who love him almost EXCLUSIVELY to put them down and make them feel small or silly or bad about themselves for having gone a little ape shit over him? Why would you bother, if you really don't care?
What is it that you dare care about?
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@nik... You rock girl! As always...
Kember...
I meant, what is it that you DO (not dare) care about?
Nik
Never apologize for saying too much.
I envy you that heart you wear on your sleeve.
cerulean blue...
I just had to go back and read your post again. It was just great and I know that alot of people here have told me that I express what they're feeling and I'm very flattered by that. But you know...
Alot of you express just what I'm feeling too and do it alot better than I can. I've wanted to say that for some time now, but haven't.
Could it be because I'm too busy expressing my thoughts? Yeah. That's probably it.
I love this place and the overall good feelings that we express for one another and for Rob and Kristen. I don't read other sites, but I've heard it's a cesspool out there. No thanks. I'm happy where I'm at.
Thanks guys.
sometimes its worse than the israeli's and palestinians on this blog.. jeez.
everyone please respect one another. we all know what divides us on this blog and this is EVERYTIME. I know I am just as guilty as the next person when it comes to commenting on R&K. its obvious kristen isnt going anywhere anytime soon. so those who dont like her have to suck it up and deal with it and the same goes for those that adore her and want to have pillow fights with her. at the end of the day it doesnt matter. they dont care whether we like them together or not. they just want to be left alone.
if you have seen me on this blog before then you all know where my allegiance stands, but i am actively trying to support rob in his decisions. it makes me happy to see him smile. it makes me happy when we all get along and can shoot the sh*t and joke around. i havnt been on lately because i have had a lot of finals, but i will say this. it is possible to get along whether you love or hate kristen and agree and disagree with his decisions. I have few friends on here who love kristen and even my best friend is a huge kristen fan. a lot of what we say gets either lost in translation or it is interpreted in a different way because we cant easily read facial expressions or tone of voice.
i know its a long shot for us ALL to get along, but please try to be nice not attack anyone. We are all fans of ROB. This blog is for Rob. We don;t all have to like each other the same way all of us dont have to like Kristen, but its important to be respectful of one another. Refraining from calling people names is on the top of my list.
and in all seriousness, none of us know whats good for Rob. Perhaps Kristen is a good thing and perhaps she isnt. It doesnt matter. If she makes ROb smile then so be it. I would rather him be with her and smiling than be unhappy without her. I hope you all feel the same
She does seem to b exhausted when they've been together and he's all smiles. Hmmmm....
I would b pissy and sporting a major b'otch face too if I just came from wherever,spent who knows how long on a plane breathing recycled air, sitting next to someone who prob can't sit still for more than five min and really needing a ciggy. Then to top it off by walking out to cameras flashing and people screaming at u. Aww F that !! I they r doing a great job handling it ! Personally I would b ready to shove my complementary peanuts up someones @ss !!
Nik, Here's looking at you kid.
Steph, I'll drink to that too.
cerulean blue...
Oh. Thank you for that. And yeah, I guess I do wear my heart on my sleve. Always have. I don't know why. When I love someone or something, I just love 'em and it's hard to hold back what I'm feeling.
And doing it on a public blog can get your teeth kicked in but...if I'm not gonna express what I'm truly feeling, then what's the point?
But thanks for that. Very kind of you.
@Steph I drink to that too.
Love peace and Rob
@Nik
I'm the same way. A person can always tell how I am feeling regardless of the situation. If I'm in a bad mood then people will now it.
While I do believe people should have an opinion. I also feel like in this blog you have to tread lightly. Oh how I would looooove to say what I feel majority of the time, but I know that people will either misinterpret or find me aggressive and mean. If you can say what you feel without backlash then more power to you, but its different when you like kristen. if you like her there is no backlash. its when you dont like her is when everyone jumps on your back for just having an opinion.
hope everyone is treating you well and not kicking you teeth in =) you seem nice and give a lot of thought to your responses.
Nik--sometimes, when we see a spark of something in a person who is going thru cycles of behaviour where some of the cycles are wonderful and some are hateful, we engage when we really ought not; it is like enabling in a really not good way for a really not good cycle behaviour. And this can be taken as a general rule, not agaisnt any one person or any specific group of people.
@Reecee...
"ready to shove my complimentary peanuts up someone's ass."
I almost spit my coffee out onto the screen. Good one girl.
And sissi...
I don't know how much I 'rock' and I know I shouldn't respond as it just feeds the psychosis. But dammit, sometimes I just can't help myself, especially when she goes after someone else for no damn reason.
And Steph...
You're absolutely right. It is possible (and for the most part, I think we accomplish it), that we can express our different and varying feelings about him, her, whatever, without attacking one another. If not, I would have left this site long ago.
Anybody remember Jimmy Stewart and Henry Fonda? They were life long best friends (for over 50 years) and they despised one another's politics. Jimmy was a die hard conservative and Henry a bleeding heart liberal. They were roomates in Greenwich Village when they were still in theatre before they're film careers took off. And Jimmy told this story of how they got into a bloody fist fight over politics and they were out brawling in the street in the snow. After that they agreed to never talk about politics again. And they didn't, for the rest of their lives. And they loved each other until the end of their lives.
My lifelong best friend and I are the same. She's a Rush Limbaugh Republican and I'm a Bullworth Democrat. And we know that we can't go there or else we'll say things that could hurt or anger the other. So...we refrain. And we've known each other since she was 5 and I was 8 and I imagine we'll still know and love each other when she's 95 and I'm 98.
As long as she doesn't bring up Rush Limbaugh. Kidding
But yeah. We can do it too. We are...for the most part. And considering were doing it on the internet where it's easier to express negative thoughts without having to take responsibility for them...I think were doing a pretty damn good job.
Just don't anybody mention Rush Limbaugh. That man makes me want to jab a fork in my eye...or his.
This here is the coolest,hottest couple on earth............
I heart them............
Steph...
I can only imagine how difficult it must be for some to hold back their feelings about Kristen. Expressing my feelings for her is easy because I really like this girl. Whether she was Rob's girl or not, I like her. From all appearances, she's my kind of girl. I 'get' her.
But I have wondered, what if he'd taken up with a Megan Fox or Lindsey Lohan or that nasty Olivia Thurlby (whom he was going to shoot Parts Per Billion with). If he had, as forthcoming with my opinions as I am, would I have been able to hold my tongue? I'd like to think so and show some respect for his choices, but I'm thinking, I could have very well struggled with it too. And would I feel differently about him personally (not his talent) if I thought he was with someone that I believed to be a not so decent person? Or someone who appeared not to appreciate him enough. It's an interesting question and one I might be faced with one day. There's nothing saying that he's going to remain with Kristen for the rest of his life. He could very well take up with a REAL nasty bitch someday.
And yes Solas...
I shouldn't have responded. I knew it was a mistake when I was doing it. Guess I'll just have to keep trying to hold my tongue. It's just that when she goes after someone else, it's hard to let it go by. But I'll keep trying.
Oh. And Steph...
I don't know how much thought I give to my posts. I really am just typing off the top of my head. If I were to sit down and actually think about what I wanted to say, I might actually say something of worth. It would at least be alot more coherant.
And with that, I must away. Got seven boquets of flowers for Mother's Day to get ordered.
Hey. How come we don't have a 'barren Old Maid' day? We need love too you know. LOL!
@Nik
you hit the nail right on the head. Its easy when you like Kristen, but when your on the other side it isn't. Out of all of the women you listed I would pick Kristen 100x over, but I am glad you actually do consider my point of view too. it is really appreciated.
And Delle 1...
Is your avi a 'real' shot of them or has it been manipped? 'Cause WOW! That is a hot shot and just what photo shoot did that come from?
And yeah Solas...
Look at James Carville and Mary Matalin. They've managed it, haven't they? Supposedly, they have one of the happiest marriages in all of politics. I always thought that their love story would make for one hell of a movie.
With Billy Bob Thornton playing James (he already played a variation of him in Primary Colors) and maybe...um...Mary Louise Parker as Mary.
That would be pretty darn good casting.
Okay. Say goodbye Nik. NOW!!!
Flowers. Remember?
Yeah. Right. Flowers.
I'll try to come back and play later.
You're welcome Steph. **kiss**
FINE..I'm here Nik..happy???
Hi guys,
RD 2010.05.07.
I've tried to NOT comment on this very subject.
Tried really hard.
Every time. Every day. Every moment.
Cause I know it's a very touchy topic. Very. And hot. And dangerous. And unnecessary.
Cause it's NOT our business.
Cause we can't do a damn thing about it.
Cause even if we could, we wouldn't.
I think u got it.
BUT
I must say/make a short notice anyhow:
(just like Nik, I can't shut the f..k up about things I feel strongly about, & just as Nik, I do have a very precise opinion about almost everything, so...)
I may not like KS's style or acting or facial expressions.
But I've definitely learned to - RESPECT HER. A lot.
She IS (just suppose!)Rob's partner in this cosmic madness. His soul mate, his very best friend, his support, shelter, brother in arm, object of admire, love... Someone he's chosen among millions of human beings he could've picked... And he picked her... Our beloved boy has chosen Kristen. And we all respect him & his choices, I think.
Just imagine this tiny little gal(with Rob, of course) sitting there on Oprah's couch.
The very same couch where we saw that lunitic TC jump and scream about his life's love, KH.
The very same couch there we saw Julia Robert talking about the big love of her life (his husband) & about her precious twins.
Or Brooke Shields about her depressions after giving birth to her daughter.
The same couch there we could follow the biggest movie stars/TV personalities/musicians in the entire world open their hearts & souls & answer the most intimate questions for the BIG Oprah W.
THE Oprah W.
And now just imagine the extremly shy & private Kristen sitting there on the couch with Rob and confront the big Oprah's question. THE question.
And it seems that these young kids succeeded with "mission impossible" - they've left Oprah without answer, they've succeeded to keep their integrity intact & their most intimate corners of their souls untouched.
And I call it a minor f..king miracle!
And I must admit my respect 4 Kristen Stewart & my endless love AND huge respect 4 Robert Pattinson have never been bigger.
And again - AMEN TO THAT!!!
Hugs
I love the pictures and news posted on this site, check on it almost every day. Thank you for such hard work! And I have to admit that my guilty pleasure is to read the comments whenever Kristen pops up in the pictures. Sometimes the smallest comment such as "smile girl" will get everyone in a tizzy. I'm not one to bash someone, but I'm also not going to defend them like my loved ones. I do not feel sorry for Kristen, not even a little bit. If she's tired of it all, she can quit. Really. She can. It's a choice we all have. She could go to college and get a job at a Starbucks, people would forget about her in two weeks. That's how loyal Hollywood and fans are.
I read parts of the Elle article and it bothered me even more. I respect her decision of not talking about Rob. That's her choice. But saying no one cares more than she does? That is very arrogant of her. And if she really is that uncomfortable at galas and events, so much that she is driven close to tears, well... don't go! And stop wearing those micro-mini outfits that scream for attention! She is very contradictory.
So no, I don't feel sorry for the poor girl who has a dream job, money, good looks and a pretty boyfriend. No, I feel sorry the people in Haiti, or people who can't feed their kids, or people who are unjustly sent to jail, or people who work 70-hour weeks and can hardly afford rent, or people who are sick and alone... nope, no place to pity this gorgeous, young, talented girl who has what so many other don't: a choice.
Guys, seriously, don’t feel bad for her because she has to deal with paps. There are far greater evils in this world. Paps are part of the deal, they come along movie franchises and magazine covers. They come alongside the buckets full of money and glamorous life. We all have jobs, right? And there are aspects of it that suck. She needs to understand this, make a decision to either stay or leave, and if she stays… she needs to learn how to smile. She really does.
@LeeC
Well said & Agreed. I do have some respect for her though and I do feel bad a little, but there are more important things to sympathize with....especially since she has control over the situation surrounding her. She knows that the paps wouldnt hound her if she stayed away from Rob, but she willingly does so anyway. I know we all love Rob, but if that was your life would you want to be in Kristen's shoes? I know you all want to say yes, but really take the time to think about it for a second. Your life would be put under a microscope. Every hideous birth mark, double chin, cellulite spot, crazy hair day, fashion faux pas would be deconstructed. She is this little indie actress. She wants to act -thats it-. I kind of have to sympathize with her because she cant even be with her bf without being hounded. She could easily end this all with the snap of her fingers and it would stop the madness, but then what? Poor Rob is left behind and the same goes for Kristen. I dislike her immensely, but she makes him happy so i cant fault her for it. She has to take the good with the bad.
I am pretty sure she feels Rob is worth it to endure the amount of abuse she receives daily and that is very admirable.
I also agree with the contradictory part, but that is neither here nor there. I am kind of 50/50 on whether or not to sympathize, but I still try to picture myself in her shoes. I honestly dont think I could do it. I like being nobody important. I enjoy my privacy immensely.
@Steph is Legit
Oh, I agree. I ADORE my privacy. But then again, I'm not an actress, staring in a humongous movie franchise. I understand the fact that she is shy, so many public personas are. But she crosses the line, from shy to sour.
You can't really expect to be working on three movies a year, be on so many magazines, so many TV shows, and still get privacy. Again, it's a contradiction. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
The funny thing about celebrities is that if they do fall out of fame, they seem to want it back no matter the cost. They bitch about the over-attention and then, after they are finally left alone, they’ll desperately want it back and do anything it takes.
I admire her acting skills (the very least in the Twilight movies), I think she is beautiful and can be funny in a smart way. But she does get to my nerves with her uncomfortable grins, micro-skirts and angry attitude. I guess she just really doesn’t know what it’s like to have it hard. She is 20 and on top of the world. Let’s not pity the gods on Mount Olympus. Yes, they may get their share of drama (mostly caused by boredom and over-indulgence), but we just get hell down here. She seems pretty lucky to me, with or without the drool-worthy boyfriend. And I do hope she realizes it before it’s too late and gone. OR, realizes that it’s really all just crap, that she wants a nice and quiet life, and goes of to live in a farm in Ohio surrounded by everything she ever loved.
@LeeC
Agreed. I would elaborate more, but Vampire Diaries is on lol.
Here's an interesting article on the fact that many people, women especially, expect women in the spotlight like Kristen to constantly wear a smiley face... and why this is not "expected" of men.
Food for thought.
http://deeplyproblematic.blogspot.com/2010/05/
kristen-stewart-smiling-is-not.html
I do understand the point of view of posters who don't like her, although no one on this site has bashed her like I've seen on other boards which in that case I feel jealously has something to do with it. I happen to like R&K together but I am Rob's fan so if they break up I will probably not follow her anymore. I think he could do a lot worse than Kristen. The next girl he dates may be an obnoxious famewhore who will let everyone know in no uncertain terms that Rob is hers. Is that what people want? If Rob ends up with someone like this I won't like it but I'll still be his fan.
Another thing is I give Kristen some leeway because she's only 20 and I shudder to remember how immature I was at 20. So she makes some mistakes in how she presents herself to the public. Big deal.
Do people really hate her out there? I find her annoying, but hate is a word I reserve for people who actually do damage to others. She does not fall in this category one bit. I guess this is the only place I visit so I don’t know what is going on at other places. And even though we are not all on the love Kristen boat in here, none of us are lunatics out for blood.
Do people really hate her because she is with RP? I see her completely independent from Robert, maybe because she might actually be more famous than he is? I don't know, but my opinion of her is not based on him at all. I actually like the way she handles her relationship and the fact that she keeps it private. As it should. I don't feel jealous of her because either way, Rob would never be with me. Ha ha. The ONE thing that MAY bother me about her relationship is that, according to gossip, he was with Nikki before her. And they were such great friends. If this is true… ouch.
I also don't necessarily want her to smile, I just want her to own it either way. If she is a bitch who hates her crazy ass fans, good. If she is ecstatic to be where she is, fine. But she can't act one way and say she feels the other way. She needs to... yeah, grow up. But there are plenty of 20 years olds that are much more mature. I don't cut people slack because of their age. I WANT her to act 20! Being 20 doesn't mean you should act like a sour 40 year old! Happy, enjoying the ride, enjoying the love, enjoying the perks… enjoying that she is young and the ride is only starting.
And just beacuse I have a problem... I need beard-Rob back! Ha ha. Some people may hate it, but I lurv me that facial hair on that man!
@Steph is Legit
Vampire Diaries doesn't start for a half an hour over here. So I have time to elaborate. LOL!
You can never get enough fangs in your life, huh? I've loved all vampires, from Lestat to Dracula, from Stefan to yeah, sparkly-controlling Edward!
I love Rob's scruff. My favorite is when he was on the New Moon press tour in Europe. That was the right amount of scruff for me.
@jmm4832
Rob during NM press in Europe... specially London. God allmighty. Urghh, he makes me hurt in all the right places...
I also liked the scruff when he was visiting his parents. Oh, and I have a slight crush on his dad. I'm a very very very troubled person.
@LeeC
I have become quite partial to Steven R. McQueen lol. He's a human in the show haha. I not a big fan of the other two guys though. It makes me feel worse knowing he is a former disney star. I feel like a pedophile.
Yes, as sickening as it sounds people do hate Kristen. Ever been to Perez Hilton? just wait for the next R&K update its so sad. I mean I dislike her for reasons I have stated before, but my reasoning is not unfounded and I dont dislike her as much as I seem.. its more of an indifference to her. I cant explain it. anyways..
there are people who are reallly brutal to her and I feel bad when its just pure hate and jealousy. Doesnt matter. She has Rob and I have my cats lmaoo
Goz and lallieb...ITA about poor Kristen and the expressions on her face. I don't comment on this usually but she deserves more respect than she gets from so many people.
ShariG....While I always respect your very fine opinions, I have to go with lallieb on this one.
It's just Rob's nature to smile more...and he doesn't do a whole lot when confronted with paps either.
Kristen has one of those serious faces and has a different personality than Rob and I say she should stay true to herself.
Solas...10:20 am...ITA
Loisada at 1:12pm...
Loved your analysis of Rob's cryptic way of spinning tales, etc. Well put.
@Jessegirl, thanks for your support. Long thread here and as always, brings out differing opinions about Kristen, but not as bad as in the past. People's POV's are coherent (Est-Rock?) and can be accepted if not always agreed with.
@Stephislegit, do I sense you're softening your opinion of Ms Stewart a bit??
@Solas, as always, insightful and worth reading.
@lall
yea i guess lol. i never hated her. i just think a lot of what i say is misinterpreted. not going to lie. i will never like her, but i do sympathize with her and make the effort to "try". I'm just trying to be supportive of Rob and plus i've been too busy to get too involved which helps a lot lol. I just hate when people are brutal to her. As I said before. I am not as anti-kristen as people believe.
btw just saw tate ellington on a kodak commercial
I would like to just comment on Robs t-shirt. wonder if hes a fan of REO speedwagon or if the shirt was a gift?Being that these pics were taken just after the taping with Oprah in chicago IL. I live 2 hrs south by champaign where REO got thier big start! so cool! I am big into music & would love to here more from Rob!BIG FAN! P.S. love reading everyones comments about Rob&Kris I say whatever makes them happy.
@nik,
sadly it's a manip but it maybe a pic of what's to come in BD.......
A girl can only dream!!!
does anyone know what the LB on his hat stands for? please post if you do thanks.
I know this is a dead thread, but what the hell...
The truth is, women are their own worst enemy. Always have been and always will be, for one simple reason...
We are in competition with one another.
The most negative comments you'll ever read about women, come from other women. We'll tear each other down in ways that we never would a man. And that's because were not in competition with men. Those we WANT!
And of course women will deny this until they're blue in the face.
But still...it will be the truth.
And you know who knows this truth most of all?
Men.
And they disrespect the hell out of us because of it. We will never be equal with men as long as we continue to behave like women...towards each other. NEVER!
Forgot my last thought...
Men see this behavior as catty, juvenile and weak.
And they're right.
It is.
Hahahahahaha Cute...
Nik--I disagree. Some women act like that, but not all, and it is not something intrinsic to women, or natural to women; i think it is something sociological based on competition for 1-survival, by fighting for the guy who could provide the best cave, hunt the best mammoth, etc, and 2- for continuation of species, by competing for the guy who seemed to have the best genes to pass on (better looking, more fit, etc) and developed over time into competition for the guy who could provide the best financially (nice home, clothes, food) and provide the best genes to pass on (and body to have sex with).
On the other hand, I have often said that if we want wars to stop, we need to have women leaders in the world, leaders who would nurture the chldren rather than send them out to fight, and would send the war-mongering men to bed without supper (or sex) etc untl they could behave better.
What is intrinsic, built in, to women as female humans, is the ablity to nurture (our bodies are made to carry and bear life and feed it) even though not every woman can have a child and not every woman is a nurturer.
I wish we could work toward letting the natural capacity (and need?)for nurturing wipe away the sociological need for competition.
Basically I am saying that women who are catty, cut-throat in their competition for a man, coveting what another woman has to the extent of wishing her harm, are stuck in the neanderthal stage, and it is more than high time to evolve.
May 7, 2010 11:03 AM
Trex: the LB stands for Long Beach State University, located in Southern California.
And speaking of Tshirts, some ladies on another LJ blog sent Rob a shirt. This is the photo they received in return as thanks. Very telling ;)
Guess Kris is letting us fans know she's fully aware who's trying to dress her man, but appreciates the help in getting his closet together!
http://danceofthegods.tumblr.com/post/
505450677/i-got-this-from-a-girl-in-
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Loisada--thanks for that link; very cute!
Did the women who sent Rob the new Stoli shirt (and I think suspenders???) ever get a note and/or photo?
Loisada...
Whenever I've seen that LB on his cap, I've wondered if it meant Long Beach (and not because I live here). But what I haven't been able to figure out is, with all of the baseball caps he could be wearing, why one from Long Beach State? What? Is he planning on enrolling? LOL!
And Solas...
You're right. I made a blanket statement. Not all women behave in such a manner; those who have matured and have figured just a little bit out of what life is really all about. But a whole hell of alot of women; the younger ones in particular, that are still in search of mates and partners in reproduction? They do.
And the pop cultural media plays this up. Always pitting women against each other. We always hear about 'cat fights' amoungst women. How come we don't hear about 'dog fights' so much amoungst men? Look in the celebrity and fashion magazines. It's women's bodies that are on display fueling the jealousy (and yes, they're starting to exploit the men too...but there's no jealousy there on women's part. only admiration and desire).
What really gets me is, they'll show two women in the same dress and have the public vote on who wore it the best? Competition! Do we do this to men? No, we don't.
And I stick by my opinion that men do disrepect women for the catty ways in which 'some' women treat each other. They do see it as WEAK.
And unfortunately, it's the 'some' women behaving this way that seem to be getting all of the attention and therefore, this is what is forming the 'perception' of things. And that's because this is something they can 'sell' to us.
Nurturing, fair women do not sell us anything. In fact, in this modern world, if you're not out for number one, that is viewed as a negative. I'm not saying it's right. I'm saying this is the 'perception' of things.
And men really do hate this about women. I've talked to and interviewed enough on the subject to know. Because 'some' women (the woman in the spotlight) behave this way, it makes men feel superior to them. Because they see this behavior as infantile. And they're right. It is.
Just on this blog. Look at how Kristen is talked about. Everything about her is criticised;
her hair, her clothes, her facial expressions, her awkwardness in public. But it look at Rob...
We cut him slack for his 'duster bum' look and call him 'hobolicious'. When his hair looks like it hasn't seen a comb in a week, we call it 'sex hair'. When he's shy and awkward and bumbling in public, it's seen as endearing. Nope.
You'll never convince me on this one. Women can be nasty, catty bitches to one another and it is because of the competition.
Just my opinion. Doesn't make it right.
i agree they can be, but only if they do not grow beyond the neanderthal stage. As for men, sure we don't see cat or dog fghts usually,we just see them beating their women into submission or coming with guns at an ex and her new man. Again--only those who haven't grown beyond the neanderthal within.
And you are right about the bodies on display, the objectifyng, now dribbled over to men, and hooted as if it is a good thing that men are finally objectified, rather than rising above it and choosing to not objectify ANYONE.
Rob smiles, Kristen does not. Everybody's different. We are not privy to the real deal. I know when I return home from a cross country flight the last thing I would want are cameras in my face.
I like to smile and people often comment on how nice my smile is. My husband does not. Guess what comments I hear about that! Is something wrong? Is he unhappy?
Can you imagine people with cameras following your evey move? People you don't even know make comments about how you dress, your facial expressions and what you say. Would you like it?
Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Unfortunately some girls/women can be catty and a lot of the negative comments towards Kristen are a result of jealousy. But they are entitled to their opinion, that's what free speech is all about. I do draw the line when it gets rude.
This site is a wonderful place because of the many witty and intelligent women who share their thoughts about all things Rob.That is why I keep coming back.
Loisada- thanks for the info on the cap. I live in my own small world & because i have kids the L B could have been for london bridges for all i knew thanks again!
I was just thinking about all that has been blogged here. And now i have to put my 2 cents in. Somewhere in the short past I did read something about Rob& Kristen making bets on who can stay off thier own websites the longest. so this tells me that they do read what we write. &if I were Rob it would piss me off if people (fans)were making not so nice comments about my girlfriend! or close friend whichever. I'm not saying not to have some fun with the pic's that we get to see,but we need to stay respectful to both or we may just lose his smile as well! And that would be a sad,sad day! Because we all love Rob's smile don't we? But who knows maybe they read these & just laugh. I'm not trying to be mean here, JUST HONEST !!!!
Nik: I don't get it either, but it's def an LB State cap. For a while I wondered if K's brothers Cameron or Taylor were going there, but I vaguely recall reading somewhere that Rob actually bought the cap in Japan@# Go figure.... Are you anywhere near Belmont Shores?
Women being catty? C'est pas vrai ! Yes, it's ingrained in the culture and in women's bodies and minds. It starts in middle school when the hormones go wild and girls start vying for masculine attention (just ask my daughter how many "cat fights" there have been at school this spring alone, and what sparked them! 99% of the time it was a boy they both liked.).
Some women never seem to grow out of it. Women lacking a sense of self-worth that is not based on physical appeal to men often feel they need to tear down the "competition," with the main focus on their "attractiveness" quotient.
I think it's true as Nik says that men find this ridiculous, all the more so as they don't use the same "appeal" standards as women and so often don't even find the same women attractive as we women do. Women are the ones that buy into the outrageous beauty standards first! Rob has called Kristen "breathtakingly beautiful." He's got a right to his opinion, doesn't he? And if we're true Rob fans, I think we can grant him the last word on the subject.
Sorry ladies..... rant over.....
trex, it makes me sad to think of Kristen reading all the awful catty things said about her, especially on other websites.. I suppose it's human nature to want to check but that has to be painfully hard to take. I don't know what people expect - for her to smile sweetly at the paps? I have seen her smile with the fans.
And I agree with Loisada. Some women never grow out of cattiness. My workplace has some 40 year-old bitchy women. People do not find that attractive!
Loisada--I don't know if you will see ths, but I just saw your comment and felt compelled to respond. The cattiness, especially of adolescent girls that you describe, is not only NOT ingrained, not a necessary part of hormones, and is not even from the neanderthal inheritance, but rather is cultural. This nonsense (and beyond nonsense, destructive dangerous shyte) going on now did not go on anything like this in previous generations, and does not go on in girl-only highschools. Somethign wicked this way has come in societies, that all of this destructive, deadly shyte is hitting the whirly blades.
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