Rob looked dashing, debonair, and beautiful last night, BTW. He was lovely, and a perfect British gent! And I'm glad Kristin won. Good for her. See how easy that was?!?
@Steph, you made perfect sense. Yes I understand...debates are always great fun and I would love some Kristen bashing myself :-), but I keep reminding myself that she is after all only 19!
Gozde-love you dear. Had to vent a little-that kind of crap makes me so mad though-apologies if I was out of line with anything I said. You're awesome, and so rock BB!
One last thing and I am out-if you don't want to be called pscho-don't act like it! Act like a normal GROWN ASS WOMAN, not a bitchy sophomore from high school.
I know you are frustrated with the animosity, but please allow people to have their opinions. I didn't curse kristen out i simply stated an opinion which i would gladly voice aloud to her. people on here can get frustrating and you know it as well as i do, but how is calling people prejudiced psychos helping matters? Just leave it be.
Can I say one thing? Just a thought - Kristen is 19 years old. My daughter is also 19 and I look at the two of them and am struck by how mature KS is. It amazes me how well she does handle all this attention and press and lack of privacy. She seems wise beyond her years. to think she was barely 18 doing all that press for the first movie. If any of you have children or friends who are just 19 - compare the two. It's easy to expect so much of KS because she SEEMS so much older, but in truth, she is not even legal to drink yet. Yet everyone expects her to act totally perfect. Imagine how overwhelming all this attention must be to someone who obviously is basically a shy person. I think if you keep her age and youthfulness and shyness in prospective, you might realize that while she might need to learn things (and who doesn't) about how to "properly" act in public, she has done remarkably well for such a young person.
AND - remember your first love? Imagine you had all this other drama to deal with besides all the awkward feelings that go with your first, meaningful, deep love.
Just remember how YOU were at 19 and maybe it will put it all into some kind of perspective.
OT - isn't it wonderful how one small, fuzzy picture of them leaving in a car is enough for Robsten fans? That picture will keep us all happy for months!!!
Warm today. My pennyworth: Rob will continue to have the friends he wants to have, and do the projects he wants to do, and live his life the way he sees fit - no matter the judgements. And Gozde will continue to moderate as she sees fit. :)
girls everyone should respect each other may you like kris or not may you like robsten or not I dont like her and I dont think they are a couple thats my opinion
In all honesty I am am a year older than Kristen. I do think she does act own her age. She doesn't act older and she doesn't act younger. She may be a young adult, but she is still an adult and she is almost 20. Not every 20 year old is at a frat party doing god knows what.
I think she has both mature and immature qualities I think she can't articulate well because she is nervous which is understandable, but it is something she really should spend time working on. She also has a dgaf attitude that should have been left at the playground in middle school.
She is mature in my eyes as well because she even after all the garbage she has to deal with she takes it with stride. she understands she has no control over it. she has said that she wants to go to school and she seems to prioritize herself well.
she is almost 20 so I am going to just call her a 20 year old. I think she does act her age. She has immature qualities but that can be blamed on a alternative lifestyle. She was home schooled and thrust into the movie business at such a young age. she probably rarely had a lot of friends her own age so she kind of skipped on the childhood drama that is filled with life lessons. on the flipside she probably only interacted with adults she she knows how to 'act like an adult'
i don't know. i kind of see her as a normal 20 yr old. or at least as normal as a 20 yr old who was thrust into the fame of hollywood can get ya know?
I'm not robsten, nonsten, crapsten or whatever fan I just like Rob and Kristen as well.They are interesting kind of people that i like the most. IMHO Spending time together does not necessarily mean dating.(Of course I not assume that this is not possible of course). But, Does sharing a common interest shared views of certain things must go hand in hand with the desire, the need for physical proximity of the fraternal soul.Not necessarily.In today's world, it is a rare attitude , but personally I am very clean example of that kind of relationship with my boyfriend without any subtext.Among themselves they feel good. They stands out from the rest people. They do not feel the need to force the match to the vision of others.I if I were in their shoes I would also acted similarly.
wow, I cannot believe all of the hateful comments posted on here. I think its great to have differing opinions. Everyone is entitled to have his/her own feelings.
I am a huge KStew fan. I don't judge her by her looks or demeanor. (Mama taught me to never judge a book by its cover). I've seen countless KStew interviews, and although she may not be the most eloquent speaker, she is an extremely intelligent 19 year old. I think its amazing to have such depth at such a young age.
Maybe the reason why KStew is self deprecating and so self conscious is because of these unreasonable expectations, ie: smiling more for the camera, being more appreciative (who says she isn'?) I for one wouldn't be able to handle all of these hateful comments and I am in my 20s, let alone 19!
@pap Spending time together does not necessarily mean dating.(Of course I not assume that this is not possible of course). you are right thats what I mean this is not mean they are dating
Goz, I totally understand your need to be neutral on this. I would just hope the bottom line here is sincerely wanting Rob to be happy and healthy and safe.
ya know most of us agree we like/love rob,they are both their own persons treat them like you would someone you work with/see everyday.you WOULD NOT be saying this stuff to them if you saw them everyday.they are young adults with the ability to pick and choose their thoughts,relationships,work situations all by themselves. i really dont think at the end of the day they give one shiney rats behind what we say bout them...or i hope they do.I really hope they have thier think skin suits on for the rest of thier acting careers.
Goz-if you think I only say these things on the internet because I can hide behind a screen..then YOU have completely lost ur marbles..YOU don't know me very well obviously..I would tell Kristen that in real life..YOU can play ur lil games..and let these completely immature women run around here and play their lil games..but the minute someone says the truth about a celeb..you all over them..I'm sorry I don't play games anymore..I sat here and watched you make a whole post knowing it was gonna egg ppl on and that u were gonna delete it..why..to show ur superiority..I've sat here just this morning and watched someone get on a new name and some that don't even bother to do that..just to start arguments and problems..so the minute u tell ME..I have to tone it down a notch..is the minute I WILL tell YOU to FUCK OFF..play all ur immature games LADIES..with someone else..this ain't high school to me..I graduated 12 years ago..HOLLA :)
“Opinions” aren’t scorned here, but shit-slinging is (and excuse me everyone else for that term, but sometimes there is only one shoe that truly fits!)
Just turn some of the comments on this thread on their head, and imagine someone is writing them about Rob. Is this informative opinion sharing? Did you learn anything from it, gain new insight or perspective? Are you comfortable with people bashing him like this? . . Please (Kristen) leave that Twilight shit and move on, and don’t associate with him. He can’t act.. he looked like hell.. I don’t think he is good for her. If I were him and banging the hottest girl out there... I’d be grinning. Can’t you see he is always so moody? WTF was he thinkin? He wears shit like that just so people can make fun of him and he can look like a victim. Boy needs to change his attitude. Get it together boy! He’s being pathetic. Ill be damnedif I’m gonna kiss a llil bitter ass like his. He chose to be a friggin “actor. He looked miserable... . .
I totally support you. We are not sheep. You are entitled to your own opinion and should be able to give it here freely. You were not rude or disrespectful and if others don't agree, they should still respect your views. How is it bashing if it’s her opinion? Why should this site be neutral? That goes against the whole idea of having a forum for comments and discussion. People should just be mature enough to understand that not everyone will agree with their POV and get over it. Kristen is a legitimate topic; why should we restrict the threads to how much we love Rob and not be able to discuss any other aspect of his life?
@Gozde
While you are the admin/creator of this site, wasn’t it started because you guys were censored elsewhere? I know things are a little tense after last week’s failed open thread experiment, but I hope you won’t start dictating what can and cannot be discussed here.
I never comment but I do read this site EVERYDAY!! First off, Rob looked awesome/delicious last night, as he always does. I love his "Mr. Darcy" look he has going on right now. As for Kristen, I am in the middle with her. I went and rented almost all of her movies after I saw her in Twilight because I wasn't feeling her and I wanted to see if it was just how she was being directed. She's okay and she still has a lot to learn hence the "rising" part in the award she received last night. I'm still looking forward to seeing her in her next upcoming films away from Twilight. The only negative thing I have to say about her is that she needs to hire a different stylist because her outfit choices for the past few public appearances have been horrible! She is a beautiful girl and her appearance should reflect who she is.
The Kristen bashing in this thread is a real turnoff because I don't come here to Robsessed to read bashing comments. I come here to worship Rob period. Have a little respect for Rob please.
Rob in a tux....WOW... On the Kristin thing, she is just 19 and their lives have changed so much in the last year. I think they are both handling things pretty good considering the changes they have been through.
I'm gutted to have to say this, but OMG - I hate his new hair! Whoever is responsible for that should be fired.
Rob can look panty dropping gorgeous or make you cringe... mostly the former, but I keep getting distracted from his beautiful eyes and the elegant cut of his tux by the ugly trying-to-be-TAME "do" that just looks a little greasy. Not flattering Rob.
Gee I go away and come back and I see that the shippers=robstens are out in force. Why do you always have to use the same old crap? So it has been decided if someone does not like K on this site than they are classed as.. a basher? a hater?.. WHHHAAATTT a... prejudiced Psycho? Harsh words! As others have said, and Steph put so eloquently, it should be allowed that everyone has an opinion. If your opinion differs than it can be debated. Problem here is that once you begin to call people names, because they say something you do not agree with, then it will descend into disagreement and stop being a debate.
I am especially saddened to here people so easily say we like Kristen here so if you don't.. go somewhere else. You know the "if you don't like it go somewhere else" has been the catch phrase around here for some time now. Adding Kristen to the comment just shows how much this site has changed. What has happened to ROBSESSED it used to be fun to come here and discuss /read all things ROB.
I am happy to go on record and say I do not find anything appealing about KS. If Rob does that's his business not mine. BUT I defy anyone to tell me that I do not have the right to my own opinion. Suck it up. If you like her, so be it. Don't trot out the old "if Rob likes her she must be special" line. For all we know he could have appalling taste in women? Don't call me or others haters etc because we voice an opinion you don't want to hear. IMHO it would be so much better if this site went back to being solely ROBSESSED. What? I'm not allowed to dream?!
Rob and Kristen both have my utmost respect for handling all the craziness Twilight has brought into their lives. Some of Rob's fans make me embarassed to be one of his fans. Obsession with someone's private life is SICK. (Agatha - get some help) Have some respect for Rob by respecting someone who's obviously near and dear to him - Kristen. You girls should be ashamed. One thing for darn sure, Kristen must love that boy an awful lot to put up with crazy hate from his fan base. Grow up, get a life and stop judging people you don't know.
My last 2 cents: If people want to discuss their "opinions" of Kristen Stewart, go to those other blogs and vent all you want. This is about Robert Pattinson and when one of his best friends is on the radar, because all things Rob are posted here (thank you G,K,K), it should not be open season to load and fire your opinions on said "friend" based on a photo or preconceived ideas you might have, (regardless of their fame). This is the internet and anyone, including K's family, friends, and Rob's can easily access it. Yes, criticize his clothing choices, his hair, misbuttoning or shoe-lacing (my pet peeve :), but from Rob's perspective, how would YOU feel if someone you cared about, a friend or SO, was being criticized on the internet, with derorgatory, even hateful bashing, based on a photo, or from something they think they know, as strangers who have never met them. It's simple: Rob likes Kristen, respecting him means respecting his friends too. If you don't like her, apparently there's lots of other places to express yourself.
Too many great comments after I left in the middle of the day. @Jen, thank you for taking time to make the list. From first-hand accounts, Kristen is very gracious to her fans. She can be a tough pill to swallow, but appreciated the insights about her age and situation, ITA.
@solas, as always...you take it to another, saner level.
@Agata, no thanks for stirring it up, but thanks for becoming more articulate in later comments on the thread.
Lallieb and jerseygrl, thanks for articulating exactly what I want to say! Respect Rob and leave his friends alone. Imagine if Rob were to come here and read these hateful remarks. Do you think that is the type of fan that Rob wants?
@ Femroc and yes another is that everyone is entitled to their own.
Get over yourselves will you!
I am sure Rob has more important things to do then visit web sites full of vapid women who most of the time seem to be lusting after him and the rest of the time are gushing about how this site is the best site EVVAARR. Which reminds me before you say it..... again and again......... I do have better things to do.
@femroc, yup oh so right, but some are more valid than others, depending, of course, on one's POV. Oops, I'm past my 2 cents here. Easy to do that. (Especially when the damn Olympics televising my fav events after my bedtime and I'm still up!)
Ok, haven't read all the comments yet, but I have to chime in on the "hater" issue. Lots of fellow Robsessors that aren't keen on Kstew get really offended when they are called haters. I doubt any of these people really feel genuine hatred for Kstew BUT the term hater (in its current hip hop incarnation) DOES fit. Here's a definition from Urban dictionary:
Hater: A person that simply cannot be happy for another person's success. So rather than be happy they make a point of exposing a flaw in that person.
Hating, the result of being a hater, is not exactly jealousy. The hater doesnt really want to be the person he or she hates, rather the hater wants to knock somelse [sic].
The point here is that if you feel compelled to dis Kstew -- someone that you don't know and that has never done anything to you perosnally -- you are definitely a "hater." No, this does not mean that you feel hatred or even jealousy, but you do feel the need to "take her down a peg"
I am not censoring ANYTHING, I didn't delete a single comment and I wasn't talking about people expressing opinions. Kemberly made it sound like I was telling her to take the KStew criticism down a notch. I was telling her to take her tone towards OTHERS down. She told people to fuck off, not Kristen but readers of this blog.
And it wasn't the first time. I don't moderate comments, I just interfere when someone is a repeat offender.
And this site is still ROBsessed, I can't make people in the comments talk about "only Rob". Today it's KSTew tomorrow it will be Emilie, the next day Uma.
The site still posts Rob stuff only. Can you say the same thing about other Rob sites/blogs?
I think it is so cool! I am so happy for them to be able to find time to be alone together if they are in love! He is such a sweet guy and I think Kristen is an amazing talent who is always herself. We have only seen the start of their professional careers, and have no way of knowing them personally for the most part. In my opinion,if they are able to find love and respect in a fishbowl full of sharks and jerks, BLESS THEM!! They are both young, beautiful, and it doesn't make me love Rob as an ACTOR any less! I think it is awesome they want to keep their relationship private,and they should have that right.
IMO Robsessed hasn't changed. It's still my first and fave source of Rob news. You do an awesome job.
Any claim that Robsessed has become shipper central can't taken seriously. The people that are making these claims are simply projecting their dismay over Rob and Kristin's close relationship onto you.
As you said, this site is still "all Rob all the time" and you can't exactly dictate what types of conversations people have in the comment sections.
Thank you Yves :) It made us question ourselves and we looked at the posts we made, couldn't see a difference.
I KNOW neither Kate or Kat not myself are pro-Robsten we aren't anti them either but we are definitely not shipping. As I said, I can't make people change their opinion, one way or the other.
I can't make people respect Kristen, I can't make people respect Rob either. That's why we never take place in the "respect this and that" campaigns. Respect is earned.
Godze, that's why I think the accusations are so stupid. Robsessed has never been a Robsten site. Didn't you guys come up with idontgiveacrapsten? If he's not shagging me, etc.?
I feel badly that you were made to question yourselves.
rpatzgirl - I completely agree with you. The blog was created to show appreciation and respect for Rob. Not spread gossip about anyone. I don't understand bashing someone he considers a friend.
Sorry, you don't deserve a fist-bump for stating your opinion when it is at the expense of a another human.
I don't love her BAFTA dress. It was ill-fitting. It was a fashion don't not a statement about her character. You think she did it on purpose to get attention from you?? Wow you think highly of yourself.
I give people the benefit of the doubt. All this hate/bashing is just making the people doing it look petty and angry.
Do you get a sense of satisfaction? Well, by all means, have at it. But know that you are not behaving in the spirit of THIS blog and the people who created it.
I notice there's a couple of people bashing Kristen on this thread who never post on this site otherwise. Why? Are you even fans of Rob or are you just interested in bashing Kristen? Just wondering.
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 263 of 263 Newer› Newest»Goz,
If you aren't the best then please name the most neutral moderator. you are it! embrace it =)
Rob looked dashing, debonair, and beautiful last night, BTW. He was lovely, and a perfect British gent! And I'm glad Kristin won. Good for her. See how easy that was?!?
@Steph, you made perfect sense. Yes I understand...debates are always great fun and I would love some Kristen bashing myself :-), but I keep reminding myself that she is after all only 19!
Gozde-love you dear. Had to vent a little-that kind of crap makes me so mad though-apologies if I was out of line with anything I said. You're awesome, and so rock BB!
@CullenGal09
calm down and don't call anybody psychotic.
RPattz and Ana-Shout out ladies! Loves ya.
@Agata-calls 'em as I see 'em.
@CullenGal09
well I can tell the same about you if I want to be mean. So calm down.
One last thing and I am out-if you don't want to be called pscho-don't act like it! Act like a normal GROWN ASS WOMAN, not a bitchy sophomore from high school.
just logged on real quick, at my lunch...
cullengal - love ya too :)) ditto all of your comments.
LMAO please stop it. I don't want to fight here. I said what I'm thinking and you are offending me here.
@CullenGal
I know you are frustrated with the animosity, but please allow people to have their opinions. I didn't curse kristen out i simply stated an opinion which i would gladly voice aloud to her. people on here can get frustrating and you know it as well as i do, but how is calling people prejudiced psychos helping matters? Just leave it be.
@StephsLegit
thank you
I thinks it enough for today.
Let's get back to neutral RoBsessed site. As I said I would very much like that.
Only Rob ladies :)
Can I say one thing? Just a thought - Kristen is 19 years old. My daughter is also 19 and I look at the two of them and am struck by how mature KS is. It amazes me how well she does handle all this attention and press and lack of privacy. She seems wise beyond her years. to think she was barely 18 doing all that press for the first movie. If any of you have children or friends who are just 19 - compare the two. It's easy to expect so much of KS because she SEEMS so much older, but in truth, she is not even legal to drink yet. Yet everyone expects her to act totally perfect. Imagine how overwhelming all this attention must be to someone who obviously is basically a shy person. I think if you keep her age and youthfulness and shyness in prospective, you might realize that while she might need to learn things (and who doesn't) about how to "properly" act in public, she has done remarkably well for such a young person.
AND - remember your first love? Imagine you had all this other drama to deal with besides all the awkward feelings that go with your first, meaningful, deep love.
Just remember how YOU were at 19 and maybe it will put it all into some kind of perspective.
OT - isn't it wonderful how one small, fuzzy picture of them leaving in a car is enough for Robsten fans? That picture will keep us all happy for months!!!
Warm today. My pennyworth: Rob will continue to have the friends he wants to have, and do the projects he wants to do, and live his life the way he sees fit - no matter the judgements. And Gozde will continue to moderate as she sees fit. :)
Luv the new banner. Wow.
girls everyone should respect each other may you like kris or not may you like robsten or not I dont like her and I dont think they are a couple thats my opinion
In all honesty I am am a year older than Kristen. I do think she does act own her age. She doesn't act older and she doesn't act younger. She may be a young adult, but she is still an adult and she is almost 20. Not every 20 year old is at a frat party doing god knows what.
I think she has both mature and immature qualities
I think she can't articulate well because she is nervous which is understandable, but it is something she really should spend time working on. She also has a dgaf attitude that should have been left at the playground in middle school.
She is mature in my eyes as well because she even after all the garbage she has to deal with she takes it with stride. she understands she has no control over it. she has said that she wants to go to school and she seems to prioritize herself well.
she is almost 20 so I am going to just call her a 20 year old. I think she does act her age. She has immature qualities but that can be blamed on a alternative lifestyle. She was home schooled and thrust into the movie business at such a young age. she probably rarely had a lot of friends her own age so she kind of skipped on the childhood drama that is filled with life lessons. on the flipside she probably only interacted with adults she she knows how to 'act like an adult'
i don't know. i kind of see her as a normal 20 yr old. or at least as normal as a 20 yr old who was thrust into the fame of hollywood can get ya know?
I'm not robsten, nonsten, crapsten or whatever fan I just like Rob and Kristen as well.They are interesting kind of people that i like the most.
IMHO Spending time together does not necessarily mean dating.(Of course I not assume that this is not possible of course).
But,
Does sharing a common interest shared views of certain things must go hand in hand with the desire, the need for physical proximity of the fraternal soul.Not necessarily.In today's world, it is a rare attitude , but personally I am very clean example of that kind of relationship with my boyfriend without any subtext.Among themselves they feel good. They stands out from the rest people. They do not feel the need to force the match to the vision of others.I if I were in their shoes I would also acted similarly.
wow, I cannot believe all of the hateful comments posted on here. I think its great to have differing opinions. Everyone is entitled to have his/her own feelings.
I am a huge KStew fan. I don't judge her by her looks or demeanor. (Mama taught me to never judge a book by its cover). I've seen countless KStew interviews, and although she may not be the most eloquent speaker, she is an extremely intelligent 19 year old. I think its amazing to have such depth at such a young age.
Maybe the reason why KStew is self deprecating and so self conscious is because of these unreasonable expectations, ie: smiling more for the camera, being more appreciative (who says she isn'?) I for one wouldn't be able to handle all of these hateful comments and I am in my 20s, let alone 19!
@pap
Spending time together does not necessarily mean dating.(Of course I not assume that this is not possible of course).
you are right thats what I mean this is not mean they are dating
@FAE come yahoo chat tonight plsss
Goz, I totally understand your need to be neutral on this.
I would just hope the bottom line here is sincerely wanting Rob to be happy and healthy and safe.
Jesus Christ!
ya know most of us agree we like/love rob,they are both their own persons treat them like you would someone you work with/see everyday.you WOULD NOT be saying this stuff to them if you saw them everyday.they are young adults with the ability to pick and choose their thoughts,relationships,work situations all by themselves. i really dont think at the end of the day they give one shiney rats behind what we say bout them...or i hope they do.I really hope they have thier think skin suits on for the rest of thier acting careers.
@Solas
Rob is happy, healthy and safe.
Love you.
sorry for typos,i need to remember to wear glasses when i type.lol
Goz-if you think I only say these things on the internet because I can hide behind a screen..then YOU have completely lost ur marbles..YOU don't know me very well obviously..I would tell Kristen that in real life..YOU can play ur lil games..and let these completely immature women run around here and play their lil games..but the minute someone says the truth about a celeb..you all over them..I'm sorry I don't play games anymore..I sat here and watched you make a whole post knowing it was gonna egg ppl on and that u were gonna delete it..why..to show ur superiority..I've sat here just this morning and watched someone get on a new name and some that don't even bother to do that..just to start arguments and problems..so the minute u tell ME..I have to tone it down a notch..is the minute I WILL tell YOU to FUCK OFF..play all ur immature games LADIES..with someone else..this ain't high school to me..I graduated 12 years ago..HOLLA :)
“Opinions” aren’t scorned here, but shit-slinging is (and excuse me everyone else for that term, but sometimes there is only one shoe that truly fits!)
Just turn some of the comments on this thread on their head, and imagine someone is writing them about Rob. Is this informative opinion sharing? Did you learn anything from it, gain new insight or perspective? Are you comfortable with people bashing him like this?
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Please (Kristen) leave that Twilight shit and move on, and don’t associate with him.
He can’t act.. he looked like hell..
I don’t think he is good for her.
If I were him and banging the hottest girl out there... I’d be grinning.
Can’t you see he is always so moody?
WTF was he thinkin?
He wears shit like that just so people can make fun of him and he can look like a victim.
Boy needs to change his attitude.
Get it together boy!
He’s being pathetic.
Ill be damnedif I’m gonna kiss a llil bitter ass like his.
He chose to be a friggin “actor.
He looked miserable...
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Judgemental, vapid speculation, condescending advice.... yes. Simple free speech opinions, NO.
And yes, I called you out, not the admins. So if you need to keep slinging, aim it directly at me.
Ur all quite frankly..delusional..over celebs period..not just Robert.
Good bye Kemberly...
LMAO Gozde,
You were right....
@ Loisada
I totally agree. Thank you !
Gözde said...
Thank you :) I'm not the best, not even close :)
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No can do, Dearest Gozde. I have to disagree with you there. Big Time! ☺
This seems like a good thread to give you & everyone a reminder that without Gozde...there wouldn't be this TREMENDOUS place called RobSessed!
☺
@Agata and the others
I totally support you. We are not sheep. You are entitled to your own opinion and should be able to give it here freely. You were not rude or disrespectful and if others don't agree, they should still respect your views. How is it bashing if it’s her opinion? Why should this site be neutral? That goes against the whole idea of having a forum for comments and discussion. People should just be mature enough to understand that not everyone will agree with their POV and get over it. Kristen is a legitimate topic; why should we restrict the threads to how much we love Rob and not be able to discuss any other aspect of his life?
@Gozde
While you are the admin/creator of this site, wasn’t it started because you guys were censored elsewhere? I know things are a little tense after last week’s failed open thread experiment, but I hope you won’t start dictating what can and cannot be discussed here.
@trinit,
You need to go back and read what Gozde is referring to.
It has nothing to do with the opinions of any of her guests on the blog, it has to do with the way one guest treats others.
Different opinions have always been allowed here, name calling of other quests has not. It's been going on for months, and it's not welcomed here.
Thank you, Gozde. Seriously. <333
On a lighter note I found a pack of gum and $20 in my pocket. Carry on...
@Stephs,
You go girl....LMAO
I never comment but I do read this site EVERYDAY!! First off, Rob looked awesome/delicious last night, as he always does. I love his "Mr. Darcy" look he has going on right now. As for Kristen, I am in the middle with her. I went and rented almost all of her movies after I saw her in Twilight because I wasn't feeling her and I wanted to see if it was just how she was being directed. She's okay and she still has a lot to learn hence the "rising" part in the award she received last night. I'm still looking forward to seeing her in her next upcoming films away from Twilight. The only negative thing I have to say about her is that she needs to hire a different stylist because her outfit choices for the past few public appearances have been horrible! She is a beautiful girl and her appearance should reflect who she is.
The Kristen bashing in this thread is a real turnoff because I don't come here to Robsessed to read bashing comments. I come here to worship Rob period. Have a little respect for Rob please.
Rob in a tux....WOW... On the Kristin thing, she is just 19 and their lives have changed so much in the last year. I think they are both handling things pretty good considering the changes they have been through.
I'm gutted to have to say this, but OMG - I hate his new hair! Whoever is responsible for that should be fired.
Rob can look panty dropping gorgeous or make you cringe... mostly the former, but I keep getting distracted from his beautiful eyes and the elegant cut of his tux by the ugly trying-to-be-TAME "do" that just looks a little greasy. Not flattering Rob.
Gee I go away and come back and I see that the shippers=robstens are out in force.
Why do you always have to use the same old crap?
So it has been decided if someone does not like K on this site than they are classed as.. a basher? a hater?.. WHHHAAATTT a... prejudiced Psycho?
Harsh words!
As others have said, and Steph put so eloquently, it should be allowed that everyone has an opinion. If your opinion differs than it can be debated. Problem here is that once you begin to call people names, because they say something you do not agree with, then it will descend into disagreement and stop being a debate.
I am especially saddened to here people so easily say we like Kristen here so if you don't.. go somewhere else.
You know the "if you don't like it go somewhere else" has been the catch phrase around here for some time now. Adding Kristen to the comment just shows how much this site has changed.
What has happened to ROBSESSED it used to be fun to come here and discuss /read all things ROB.
I am happy to go on record and say I do not find anything appealing about KS. If Rob does that's his business not mine. BUT I defy anyone to tell me that I do not have the right to my own opinion.
Suck it up. If you like her, so be it. Don't trot out the old "if Rob likes her she must be special" line. For all we know he could have appalling taste in women?
Don't call me or others haters etc because we voice an opinion you don't want to hear.
IMHO it would be so much better if this site went back to being solely ROBSESSED.
What? I'm not allowed to dream?!
Rob and Kristen both have my utmost respect for handling all the craziness Twilight has brought into their lives. Some of Rob's fans make me embarassed to be one of his fans. Obsession with someone's private life is SICK. (Agatha - get some help) Have some respect for Rob by respecting someone who's obviously near and dear to him - Kristen. You girls should be ashamed. One thing for darn sure, Kristen must love that boy an awful lot to put up with crazy hate from his fan base. Grow up, get a life and stop judging people you don't know.
@Gozde, long day?? You have my support always.
My last 2 cents: If people want to discuss their "opinions" of Kristen Stewart, go to those other blogs and vent all you want. This is about Robert Pattinson and when one of his best friends is on the radar, because all things Rob are posted here (thank you G,K,K), it should not be open season to load and fire your opinions on said "friend" based on a photo or preconceived ideas you might have, (regardless of their fame). This is the internet and anyone, including K's family, friends, and Rob's can easily access it. Yes, criticize his clothing choices, his hair, misbuttoning or shoe-lacing (my pet peeve :), but from Rob's perspective, how would YOU feel if someone you cared about, a friend or SO, was being criticized on the internet, with derorgatory, even hateful bashing, based on a photo, or from something they think they know, as strangers who have never met them. It's simple: Rob likes Kristen, respecting him means respecting his friends too. If you don't like her, apparently there's lots of other places to express yourself.
Too many great comments after I left in the middle of the day.
@Jen, thank you for taking time to make the list. From first-hand accounts, Kristen is very gracious to her fans. She can be a tough pill to swallow, but appreciated the insights about her age and situation, ITA.
@solas, as always...you take it to another, saner level.
@Agata, no thanks for stirring it up, but thanks for becoming more articulate in later comments on the thread.
Lallieb and jerseygrl, thanks for articulating exactly what I want to say! Respect Rob and leave his friends alone. Imagine if Rob were to come here and read these hateful remarks. Do you think that is the type of fan that Rob wants?
@jmm, thanks for just reading them. You're my type of fan!
@ Femroc and yes another is that everyone is entitled to their own.
Get over yourselves will you!
I am sure Rob has more important things to do then visit web sites full of vapid women who most of the time seem to be lusting after him and the rest of the time are gushing about how this site is the best site EVVAARR.
Which reminds me before you say it..... again and again.........
I do have better things to do.
@femroc, yup oh so right, but some are more valid than others, depending, of course, on one's POV.
Oops, I'm past my 2 cents here. Easy to do that. (Especially when the damn Olympics televising my fav events after my bedtime and I'm still up!)
@K, and the reason you bothered to comment on this site, would be...?
Ok, haven't read all the comments yet, but I have to chime in on the "hater" issue. Lots of fellow Robsessors that aren't keen on Kstew get really offended when they are called haters. I doubt any of these people really feel genuine hatred for Kstew BUT the term hater (in its current hip hop incarnation) DOES fit. Here's a definition from Urban dictionary:
Hater: A person that simply cannot be happy for another person's success. So rather than be happy they make a point of exposing a flaw in that person.
Hating, the result of being a hater, is not exactly jealousy. The hater doesnt really want to be the person he or she hates, rather the hater wants to knock somelse [sic].
The point here is that if you feel compelled to dis Kstew -- someone that you don't know and that has never done anything to you perosnally -- you are definitely a "hater." No, this does not mean that you feel hatred or even jealousy, but you do feel the need to "take her down a peg"
Just sayin!
Rob looked so adorable in all of his pictures, and was so cute when he was clapping for Kristen's win!!
we heart you Godze--robsessed is wonderful--i wouldn't want your job-bb :)
Just to make something clear:
I am not censoring ANYTHING, I didn't delete a single comment and I wasn't talking about people expressing opinions. Kemberly made it sound like I was telling her to take the KStew criticism down a notch. I was telling her to take her tone towards OTHERS down. She told people to fuck off, not Kristen but readers of this blog.
And it wasn't the first time. I don't moderate comments, I just interfere when someone is a repeat offender.
And this site is still ROBsessed, I can't make people in the comments talk about "only Rob". Today it's KSTew tomorrow it will be Emilie, the next day Uma.
The site still posts Rob stuff only. Can you say the same thing about other Rob sites/blogs?
I think it is so cool! I am so happy for them to be able to find time to be alone together if they are in love! He is such a sweet guy and I think Kristen is an amazing talent who is always herself. We have only seen the start of their professional careers, and have no way of knowing them personally for the most part. In my opinion,if they are able to find love and respect in a fishbowl full of sharks and jerks, BLESS THEM!! They are both young, beautiful, and it doesn't make me love Rob as an ACTOR any less! I think it is awesome they want to keep their relationship private,and they should have that right.
Godze,
IMO Robsessed hasn't changed. It's still my first and fave source of Rob news. You do an awesome job.
Any claim that Robsessed has become shipper central can't taken seriously. The people that are making these claims are simply projecting their dismay over Rob and Kristin's close relationship onto you.
As you said, this site is still "all Rob all the time" and you can't exactly dictate what types of conversations people have in the comment sections.
Anyway, thanks for all that you do, Godze.
Thank you Yves :) It made us question ourselves and we looked at the posts we made, couldn't see a difference.
I KNOW neither Kate or Kat not myself are pro-Robsten we aren't anti them either but we are definitely not shipping. As I said, I can't make people change their opinion, one way or the other.
I can't make people respect Kristen, I can't make people respect Rob either. That's why we never take place in the "respect this and that" campaigns. Respect is earned.
Godze, that's why I think the accusations are so stupid. Robsessed has never been a Robsten site. Didn't you guys come up with idontgiveacrapsten? If he's not shagging me, etc.?
I feel badly that you were made to question yourselves.
g'night!
>I KNOW neither Kate or Kat not myself are
ARGH, I hate my spelling mistakes :) it's NOR myself...
Oh and thanks to everyone for the positive words and the criticisms :)
rpatzgirl - I completely agree with you. The blog was created to show appreciation and respect for Rob. Not spread gossip about anyone. I don't understand bashing someone he considers a friend.
Sorry, you don't deserve a fist-bump for stating your opinion when it is at the expense of a another human.
I don't love her BAFTA dress. It was ill-fitting. It was a fashion don't not a statement about her character. You think she did it on purpose to get attention from you?? Wow you think highly of yourself.
I give people the benefit of the doubt. All this hate/bashing is just making the people doing it look petty and angry.
Do you get a sense of satisfaction? Well, by all means, have at it. But know that you are not behaving in the spirit of THIS blog and the people who created it.
Carry on with your bad-self...
I notice there's a couple of people bashing Kristen on this thread who never post on this site otherwise. Why? Are you even fans of Rob or are you just interested in bashing Kristen? Just wondering.
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